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Description
Just wanna try to group up as a person and as a dom.
Desires and Fantasies
Spanking, biting, and fuck someone from behind so that i can be on total control.
My kinks & fetishes
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We have already talk about it. She told me is limits and i told her what i want and that i don t know if im capable of not doing what she doesn t like in the middle of the sex, in the heat of the moment and she said she will take the risk 
we like each other and i believe that with proper time i Read more… will spank her and do what i enjoy. She is starting to letting me do some small stuff.
Thank you!
Yep, i guess i ll go slowly. I will learn more and she will have time do adapt to it or not. Maybe she will never want hard play, i will respect her in the end of the day. End our relationship is not a option
* sorry for my english xp
I don t know, i think she enjoy soft things only. We already talk about that and she told that spanking not at all for example.
I don t like be a sub and she loves feeling that i m controlling her. Until that part is all good, the problem is that i wanna hurt her with her consent and she doesn t Read more… want.
We like each other but can t continuing our relationship that way.
The problem is that im dating a person who only suports the pain i cause because she likes me and not by pleasure. I only bite and slap a little harder than the "normal" and she doesn t even Read more…handle that sometimes, and i want to do far worst. I know that she will try, for me, and i also know that she wouldn t like.
I like her, i care for her, but i cant fuck her without doing the things i want.
What should i do?
It sounds like the communication is a little ambiguous between the two of you. Either that, or you are being obtuse = not really listening.
If she has clearly and firmly stated her limits, FabS is right -- you Read more… shouldn't test them. I HATE when I clearly set a limit and a man decides to go ahead and test it anyway! That is disrespect. It is, in fact, abusive behavior.
On the other hand, maybe she was just telling you what she's comfortable with today... and maybe she doesn't mind if you give the envelope a teeny little nudge. Maybe she is willing to consider going in the direction you want to go... if you will go slowly enough.
You have to get this clear. What is she REALLY saying? When you know that, respect it.
