About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I’m Martin. I’ve been into kink for well over a decade now but new to this site.
Have a vanilla life (job, house, car etc) and like keeping my private life just that, but am very different behind closed doors. I prefer playing on the edgier end of the BDSM spectrum, it’s not just about kinky sex, it’s so much deeper than that. Rough as I am in play, I’m also tactile and give great aftercare.
I’d much prefer one regular partner where we can explore and develop together; I’d probably suit best someone with experience but I’m very happy to help newbies find their feet as well. I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, so looking for that shot of whiskey!
Happy to chat and give more detail in messages, the best sort of kinky relationship is built on trust and communication, so let’s have plenty of that first. I’m also open to the social aspect too - am happy meeting for drinks, food or whatever else.
In the interests of being open and honest, I will say I have a girlfriend - we are in a committed ENM relationship, so we are free to date other people - but I do have the time for regular meets, socials and building a 2nd relationship. However if you’re not OK with that, then I understand totally, some people don’t want to share!
Hope we speak soon...
Limits
None I’ve found so far, except the usual kids, family, permanent damage and super duper illegal stuff
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Begging
- Breast Fetish
- Breath Play
- Breast Play
- Butts
- Collar & Leash
- Dacryphilia
- Deep Throating
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Domination
- Edgeplay
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Extreme Bondage
- Face Slapping
- Fetish Wear
- Fire Play
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Foreplay
- Gags
- Genital Torture
- Handjobs
- Rough Sex
- Humiliation
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Medical Fetish
- Knife Play
- Masochism
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Polyamory
- Quickies
- Rimming
- Sadism
- Sauna Sex
- Younger Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Spit Fetish
- Squirting
- Voyeurism
- Watersports
Wanna know what interests me?:
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Hednesford with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Have a vanilla life (job, house, car etc) and like keeping my private life just that, but am very different behind closed doors. I prefer playing on the edgier end of the BDSM spectrum, it’s not just about kinky sex, Read more… it’s so much deeper than that. Rough as I am in play, I’m also tactile and give great aftercare.
I’d much prefer one regular partner where we can explore and develop together; I’d probably suit best someone with experience but I’m very happy to help newbies find their feet as well. I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, so looking for that shot of whiskey!
Happy to chat and give more detail in messages, the best sort of kinky relationship is built on trust and communication, so let’s have plenty of that first. I’m also open to the social aspect too - am happy meeting for drinks, food or whatever else.
In the interests of being open and honest, I will say I have a girlfriend - we are in a committed ENM relationship, so we are free to date other people - but I do have the time for regular meets, socials and building a 2nd relationship. However if you’re not OK with that, then I understand totally, some people don’t want to share!
Hope we speak soon...
Ah then yes, I misread the question
Yes of course they do. But the question was what’s the opposite of sadism
Opposite of sadism is masochism, masochists get pleasure from pain or suffering. IMO, someone who gets pleasure from the sexual pleasure of others is genetically a sub, but masochists aren’t necessarily subs and vice versa
I’d much prefer one regular partner where we can explore and develop together; ideally we’d be playing on the rougher end of the BDSM spectrum but I’m very happy to help newbies find their feet as well. I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, so looking for that shot of whiskey!
Happy to chat and give more detail in messages, the best sort of kinky sex is built on trust and communication, so let’s have plenty of that first. I’m also open to the social aspect too - am happy meeting for drinks, food or whatever else.
In the interests of being open and honest, I will say I have a girlfriend - we are in a committed ENM relationship, so we are free to date other people - but I do have the time for regular meets, socials and building a 2nd relationship. However if you’re not OK with that, then I understand totally, some people don’t want to share!
Hope we speak soon...
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