So, ello! Demi-ace here actually, lol
I’m having a bit of a slow day, but, questioning your ace-ness because of a fantasy? Don’t worry, that’s not how it works... if you don’t experience sexual attraction then that’s that, you’re as ace as they come (since I’ve been told a lot recently I’m not Read more… ace enough, lol),
And should the strange occurrence happen when you do feel Sexually attracted to someone (its weird, I’ll tell you that for certain lol!) then that’s when you know you’re demi/grey instead... the only person it should matter to is You.

To add to what others have said, is there a reason your marriage is sexless, and have you discussed it with her?
But yea, have a very open conversation about what you’d like to experience, find out why your marriage is sexless (is she a sex-neutral asexual for example?) and just go from there...

Awk thankyou petal. Best thing about selfies is that you can take dozens and only keep one! Mwahahaha
Do silly pictures just for you too- not to show anyone necessarily, just again, for confidence... I’d dread handing my phone over to someone 😅 lol

Absolutely- selfie sticks are your friend... there’s a reason all my pictures are taken from above, lol
im Suh a shy and insecure person it’s quite comical at times. But Everyone who wants to should learn to take pictures of themselves that They like.
Once you can own it, you’ll be awesome 😉☺️