Older wiser swm that has been around almost every block you can think of. Pride myself on honesty and attempting to understand what motivates every actor that shares the same air with me. We all want to be loved and heard. Unfortunately, we all have our own way of trying to make that happen. I have tried online dating for a very brief time and I am finding I never really find out who's on the other end before the end is already gone. I have walked the high roads and I have walked the gutters for decades. I have found that people are all the same. The difference between the two is the degree of *** our troubles cause ourselves and others.