My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with...

I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive.

The rules:

• Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided.
• Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel.

• No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine).
  
  My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow.
  
  I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you.
  
  I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair.
  
  For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## or pizza and I'm happy 😉

I think variety is the spice of life and I'm up to try new things.

Hard limits: , play, , s or underage and no foot play, I hate my feet being touched...