Status

Single

D/s relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 59
Status Single
Height 180cm
Weight 71kg
Body shape Average build
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Virgo
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Kinky Dates
  • Friends
  • NSA (no strings...)
  • LTR (relationship)
  • Cybersex
  • Networking

Description

UPDATE. Seeking a young female who desires to be dominated and to be involved with an existing younger female, who is working on her desires, needs and fantasies with me; she wished to explore willing females. Everything below is also pertinent to the new female.
If you're interested, and don't mind travelling here, then do make contact to talk over potential future possibilities. Sub is around 21.

Been involved with bdsm for around 12 years and always looked for younger females who were wanting to demystify their curiosity for the subject and who were genuine. I continue to learn, to adapt, to listen to and to work on satisfying the desires, needs and fantasies of frustrated females, some of whom are not taken seriously by partners, in their personal dark quest. If you're wanting to chat first, then I'm pleased to help and to try and advise. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm here to help and I'm extremely discrete. If you're new to this, don't let that stop you. I communicate at all levels so that we can experience things together. ?
Preference would be to someone not too far away. I'm not interested in one off meets. I'd far rather invest time in developing one needy, quality person; to admire, to give attention and make them the central focus. I'd like someone with quiet enthusiasm, a gsoh and an imagination, with desires to experiment, as confidence builds.
So, I am looking to make this fun and for you to find new arousal and I'll be more than happy to introduce and train a worthwhile newbie in BDSM, if of course your fantasies and desires (no matter how embarrassing) require an older dominant man, who has the experience to know how to bring the best out of you at a pace that will not scare, in reasonable comfort for training and serving. You can be bi or curious or just happily embarrassed, blushing at the possibilities. Details of training can be provided; not just physical, but mental too.
As well as training someone from the start, I'm interested in developing a female for private parties, group sex,or orgy, who has Goth or Emo interests specifically. I have erotic/Goth-type leather gear for slim and average sized females. Can also develop cuckold, if you have a willing male partner, if interested.

I will update this as i go along, but do feel free to contact me without any strings, even if you just wish to chat or learn.
I'm discrete, private and a good listener, to appreciate and understand your needs. Being in North-West England would also be a help, but not exclusively if you wish to visit by train...can meet at Oxenholme Lake District.
If you'd like to make contact, tell me about your desires, needs and fantasies and what brought you here in the first place.

Thank you for reading so far.

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  • 13.08.2018 19:42:26
  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
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How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
Saw the site mentioned by others in a previous location.
Leatherdom2020
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
Younger females who may have curious thoughts about their darker side, that keep niggling their conscience. I don't mind total beginners and don't mind just chatting, to help.
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  • 11.08.2018 15:05:44
  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
Long story, but began when about 16 and sharing ideas with first gf. It was mainly a Saturday afternoon thing. We didn't know then that we enjoyed something called switching - taking turns - and daddy/little girl. Dressing differently was part of the play too. That part of life came to an end Read more… when the relationship finished, and yes...I have perfect 20/20 vision in hindsight!!!!
This was all suppressed, even though tried to bring bring it back to life with a new partner. But, you can't impose your own belief all over someone who doesn't like it.
The resurrection came when divorce took place, around 15 years ago.
The leather fetish has simmered in a vanilla context for the last 40 years of so. The more extreme examples of which, appeared as the freedom developed.
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
See above. Learnt that once bitten, the desire eats into you and you can't do without it.
Leatherdom2020
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
Met 8 females over the last 12 years, and all were married. However, I've talked with many more, helping and advising. I've attended a few lunches in different parts of the country, but distance to major centres and travel time limits the opportunity to attend regularly. Have read widely Read more… and appreciate the cardinal ruled of safe, same and consensual, that safe words are honoured and that communicating is everything.
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  • 11.08.2018 15:05:44
  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
Rope looks pretty, but having asked for honest opinions from those who've been tied, I don't want a cold, bored, numb bottomed sub, who worries about how long it would take to get out of the shibari, if cramp set in. So to that end, I prefer to use individual lockable leather cuffs for Read more… wrists, ankles and thighs, and other wearable leather items for connecting to the previously mentioned items. Double ended quick release clips (,like a dog leash end), shackles and chains are used to hold, fasten and contain in particular positions. As the name implies, quick release clips are speedy ways to release a restrained sub.
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
I'm Dom, top, caregiver, owner.
Leatherdom2020
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What turns your kinky brain and body on?
The female form, is the simple answer.
Leatherdom2020
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Tell us about your kinky fantasies!
I'll tell someone who wishes to enter a deeper, longer conversation.
Leatherdom2020
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What was your most memorable kinky experience?
I think when one married sub brought her hubby with her, on each occasion. He went and watched a film, made tea and had supper, whilst she was given free reign to explore her desires. He came and watched occasionally. My worry? He was a strapping, thick set rugby player with arms bigger than my Read more… thighs. But he was as meek as a kitten.
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  • 11.08.2018 15:05:44
  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Are you out or in-the-closet about your kinks, sexual orientation or gender identity? Why?
To the world around me, I'm water tight. Rural people are fairly introverted and parochial in outlook and this lifestyle just wouldn't be understood.
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Do you find talking about sex and kink easy or difficult? Why?
Easy, but with care and understanding of the person with whom I'm conversing.
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  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
What accomplishment are you most proud of? (Can be something to do with kink or anything you want!)
I think to make females enjoy their hidden thoughts, that they never imagined would be realised. Satisfaction for them and for me, too.
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  • 06.08.2018 8:36:11
  • Male (59)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Looking for recommendations on leg spreader harness/sling/device.

Warning though...keep checking pressure points on cuffs for discolouration of skin and asking sub regularly if feeling ",pins and needles" sensations. If so, slacken cuffs, rub skin to increase circulation,for release from chains and take a break to move around and return later. I'm sure that you Read more… know of these precautions already.