Personal details

Gender Man
Age 60
Status Single
Height 180cm
Weight 71kg
Body shape Average build
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Virgo
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

UPDATE January, 2019. Continuing seeking young female who might be interested in being leather sub or slave. If you're new to the idea, and teetering on the edge, but yet want to know more, then chat to find more information. Everyone starts somewhere. You will be listened to and taken seriously.

Been involved with bdsm for around 12 years and always looked for younger females who were wanting to demystify their curiosity for the subject and who were genuine. I continue to learn, to adapt, to listen to and to work on satisfying the desires, needs and fantasies of frustrated females, some of whom are not taken seriously by partners, in their personal dark quest. If you're wanting to chat first, then I'm pleased to help and to try and advise. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm here to help and I'm extremely discrete. If you're new to this, don't let that stop you. I communicate at all levels so that we can experience things together. ?
Preference would be to someone not too far away. I'm not interested in one off meets. I'd far rather invest time in developing one needy, quality person; to admire, to give attention and make them the central focus. I'd like someone with quiet enthusiasm, a gsoh and an imagination, with desires to experiment, as confidence builds.
So, I am looking to make this fun and for you to find new arousal and I'll be more than happy to introduce and train a worthwhile newbie in BDSM, if of course your fantasies and desires (no matter how embarrassing) require an older dominant man, who has the experience to know how to bring the best out of you at a pace that will not scare, in reasonable comfort for training and serving. You can be bi or curious or just happily embarrassed, blushing at the possibilities. Details of training can be provided; not just physical, but mental too.
As well as training someone from the start, I'm interested in developing a female for private parties, group sex,or orgy, who has Goth or Emo interests specifically. I have erotic/Goth-type leather gear for slim and average sized females. Can also develop cuckold, if you have a willing male partner, if interested.

I will update this as i go along, but do feel free to contact me without any strings, even if you just wish to chat or learn.
I'm discrete, private and a good listener, to appreciate and understand your needs. Being in North-West England would also be a help, but not exclusively if you wish to visit by train...can meet at Oxenholme Lake District.
If you'd like to make contact, tell me about your desires, needs and fantasies and what brought you here in the first place.

Thank you for reading so far.

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Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 24.02.2019 14:33:00
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
25km search for active members

As others have said, patience and be sincere about both yourself and with the people who come looking. All good things come to those who wait. Good luck

Leatherdom2020
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  • 24.02.2019 13:35:15
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 10.01.2019 12:21:25
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Newbie question. Paying for equipment up front

Definitely lucky escape. I just wonder how many conversations you had before money for new equipment was mentioned. Was there even an image accompanying the supposed "mistress" ad/profile? If someone purports to be a mistress, then they have equipment already, surely. Alarm bells should have been Read more… ringing. Every site has spongers on it, who are trying to make easy money by conning unsuspecting newly interested people. Deep, long conversations help to build pictures in your mind, so that you build both trust and understanding between both of you. If the "mistress " can't, or won't, give you this reassuring time through talking, then again, the connection isn't worth bothering with.

Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 has updated their profile description
  • 06.01.2019 11:57:47
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
UPDATE January, 2019. Continuing seeking young female who might be interested in being leather sub or slave. If you're new to the idea, and teetering on the edge, but yet want to know more, then chat to find more information. Everyone starts somewhere. You will be listened to and taken Read more… seriously.

Been involved with bdsm for around 12 years and always looked for younger females who were wanting to demystify their curiosity for the subject and who were genuine. I continue to learn, to adapt, to listen to and to work on satisfying the desires, needs and fantasies of frustrated females, some of whom are not taken seriously by partners, in their personal dark quest. If you're wanting to chat first, then I'm pleased to help and to try and advise. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm here to help and I'm extremely discrete. If you're new to this, don't let that stop you. I communicate at all levels so that we can experience things together. ?
Preference would be to someone not too far away. I'm not interested in one off meets. I'd far rather invest time in developing one needy, quality person; to admire, to give attention and make them the central focus. I'd like someone with quiet enthusiasm, a gsoh and an imagination, with desires to experiment, as confidence builds.
So, I am looking to make this fun and for you to find new arousal and I'll be more than happy to introduce and train a worthwhile newbie in BDSM, if of course your fantasies and desires (no matter how embarrassing) require an older dominant man, who has the experience to know how to bring the best out of you at a pace that will not scare, in reasonable comfort for training and serving. You can be bi or curious or just happily embarrassed, blushing at the possibilities. Details of training can be provided; not just physical, but mental too.
As well as training someone from the start, I'm interested in developing a female for private parties, group sex,or orgy, who has Goth or Emo interests specifically. I have erotic/Goth-type leather gear for slim and average sized females. Can also develop cuckold, if you have a willing male partner, if interested.

I will update this as i go along, but do feel free to contact me without any strings, even if you just wish to chat or learn.
I'm discrete, private and a good listener, to appreciate and understand your needs. Being in North-West England would also be a help, but not exclusively if you wish to visit by train...can meet at Oxenholme Lake District.
If you'd like to make contact, tell me about your desires, needs and fantasies and what brought you here in the first place.

Thank you for reading so far.
Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 30.12.2018 11:13:34
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
New to this

Thanks Victoria. "SM101" by Jay Wiseman is a very good book with sound, practical advice. He was a paramedic and is now a legal specialist, so speaks from many safety stand points.

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Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 30.12.2018 8:13:14
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
New to this

Don't forget to read, for background information too. As well as magazine article on here, there are good "does" and "don't" publications from well respected bdsm aficionados . I don't know if admin would allow me to mention titles or authors.

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Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 18.12.2018 14:05:55
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
My first sub session

How quickly did you receive a response to your ad? It's all well and good you being given a list of your female friend's "wants", but so many say this and don't engage in the desires, needs and fantasies of the sub. If the person you're writing to is female (question seriously), then she is a Read more… domme; dom =male dominant. How many emails have you exchanged, between you? If you were dating a vanilla girl, would you seriously just book a room in a hotel, without seeing her first, like a date for drinks and chat? I think that you arrange to meet the domme, face to face, on neutral ground, in a busy pub/cafe with no preconceived ideas of anything else to follow. You need to know exactly what's in store...and you have to build something called trust. If you get told that she's too busy to bother with such incidentals, then disconnect your conversation and find someone real. Don't be naive. This is the internet, where anyone can say or pretend to be anything and add a few stolen images to make you think you've hit the jackpot. If it seems too good to be true, it probably isn't true. If the response you get, from saying/asking the above, then wave good bye, and thank your lucky stars you didn't get involved with something that wasn't real, or was to leave you seriously harmed. Beware and be cautious, it's your life that you're playing with.

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icon-wio Leatherdom2020 found their first fetish item!
  • 10.12.2018 22:12:10
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2018 11:28:01
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Bad experience with a dom.

If you explained that you were new, then he definitely should have entered into a general and supportive conversation with you. You were just two people, talking. Under normal circumstances, you would just chat so that you could ask questions, find out a little about your simmering curiosities, Read more… receive replies that would fill you with even more excitement and eagerness to make progress in your self discovery. Instead of which, you get the stuffing knock out of you. If anyone needs their name spreading around the area, it's his, not yours. A case of name and shame and potential subs, steer clear!!! Don't give up, snd ignor anyone with an over inflated ego. Like Polly says, you're equal, even when you decide to give your gift of submission. Good luck. We're all here to help.

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Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 22.11.2018 15:55:06
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Coming on Strong- Pros and Cons

The real receptive thing to remember, is take things steadily. Take time, build up trust, be serious, don't expect miracles. We all make mistakes. Everyone needs time to take in whats being said and what's being offered. I honestly think that to start talking about living arrangements, without Read more… ever having met your female friend, was a bridge too far. That sealed your fate. Surely you'd talk more online, chat on the phone, meet in a neutral venue and if all that is acceptable, then meet to agree what you'd both like to try. How much experience had your friend already had in her role?

Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 wrote something in the forum
  • 22.11.2018 15:19:08
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
Coming on Strong- Pros and Cons

Did you're happen to ask your potential "slave" what she wanted out of such a relationship? And exaftly what she was looking for? Even though you're wanting to dominate, it doesn't stop you from listening to other people's desires, needs and fantasies. To he talking about living arrangements is Read more… definitely coming on too strong, after just a couple of days. Be sensitive towards the girl, unless you want a doormat. In nearly all the advice you read on messages, you'll find the word "communication" ...it's a two-way process....listen and next time be attentive to the words thatyou receive in replies.

Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 has updated their profile description
  • 03.10.2018 12:31:59
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
UPDATE. Seeking young female who might be interested in being leather sub or slave. If you're new to the idea, then chat to find more information.

Been involved with bdsm for around 12 years and always looked for younger females who were wanting to demystify their curiosity for the subject and who Read more… were genuine. I continue to learn, to adapt, to listen to and to work on satisfying the desires, needs and fantasies of frustrated females, some of whom are not taken seriously by partners, in their personal dark quest. If you're wanting to chat first, then I'm pleased to help and to try and advise. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm here to help and I'm extremely discrete. If you're new to this, don't let that stop you. I communicate at all levels so that we can experience things together. ?
Preference would be to someone not too far away. I'm not interested in one off meets. I'd far rather invest time in developing one needy, quality person; to admire, to give attention and make them the central focus. I'd like someone with quiet enthusiasm, a gsoh and an imagination, with desires to experiment, as confidence builds.
So, I am looking to make this fun and for you to find new arousal and I'll be more than happy to introduce and train a worthwhile newbie in BDSM, if of course your fantasies and desires (no matter how embarrassing) require an older dominant man, who has the experience to know how to bring the best out of you at a pace that will not scare, in reasonable comfort for training and serving. You can be bi or curious or just happily embarrassed, blushing at the possibilities. Details of training can be provided; not just physical, but mental too.
As well as training someone from the start, I'm interested in developing a female for private parties, group sex,or orgy, who has Goth or Emo interests specifically. I have erotic/Goth-type leather gear for slim and average sized females. Can also develop cuckold, if you have a willing male partner, if interested.

I will update this as i go along, but do feel free to contact me without any strings, even if you just wish to chat or learn.
I'm discrete, private and a good listener, to appreciate and understand your needs. Being in North-West England would also be a help, but not exclusively if you wish to visit by train...can meet at Oxenholme Lake District.
If you'd like to make contact, tell me about your desires, needs and fantasies and what brought you here in the first place.

Thank you for reading so far.
Leatherdom2020
icon-wio Leatherdom2020 has updated their profile description
  • 29.09.2018 17:26:38
  • Male (60)
  • Kendal
  • Single
UPDATE. Seeking young male who might be interested in being leather sub or slave. If you're new to the idea, then chat to find common interests.

Been involved with bdsm for around 12 years and always looked for younger females who were wanting to demystify their curiosity for the subject and who Read more… were genuine. I continue to learn, to adapt, to listen to and to work on satisfying the desires, needs and fantasies of frustrated females, some of whom are not taken seriously by partners, in their personal dark quest. If you're wanting to chat first, then I'm pleased to help and to try and advise. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm here to help and I'm extremely discrete. If you're new to this, don't let that stop you. I communicate at all levels so that we can experience things together. ?
Preference would be to someone not too far away. I'm not interested in one off meets. I'd far rather invest time in developing one needy, quality person; to admire, to give attention and make them the central focus. I'd like someone with quiet enthusiasm, a gsoh and an imagination, with desires to experiment, as confidence builds.
So, I am looking to make this fun and for you to find new arousal and I'll be more than happy to introduce and train a worthwhile newbie in BDSM, if of course your fantasies and desires (no matter how embarrassing) require an older dominant man, who has the experience to know how to bring the best out of you at a pace that will not scare, in reasonable comfort for training and serving. You can be bi or curious or just happily embarrassed, blushing at the possibilities. Details of training can be provided; not just physical, but mental too.
As well as training someone from the start, I'm interested in developing a female for private parties, group sex,or orgy, who has Goth or Emo interests specifically. I have erotic/Goth-type leather gear for slim and average sized females. Can also develop cuckold, if you have a willing male partner, if interested.

I will update this as i go along, but do feel free to contact me without any strings, even if you just wish to chat or learn.
I'm discrete, private and a good listener, to appreciate and understand your needs. Being in North-West England would also be a help, but not exclusively if you wish to visit by train...can meet at Oxenholme Lake District.
If you'd like to make contact, tell me about your desires, needs and fantasies and what brought you here in the first place.

Thank you for reading so far.
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