Pookums I’m sorry about your experience i think what would be best is if you have a serious sit down with her, like make sure you tell her it’s serious and tell her it’s out of your dynamic, tell her about how she’s been making you feel and maybe to switch punishments if you genuinely don’t feel Read more… safe or comfortable with the ones she’s giving you. Ask her about your dynamic and how she’s views it and see if that matches with yours. You shouldn’t just tolerate something if it makes you unhappy hun, you should confront it and try to mutually benefit from this because from what I’ve understood form this is you feel unvalued, huh a good dom’s first priority when they take on a sub is to make sure there comfortable and it seems she’s not doing that which is really sad and must be stressful for you. I’m sorry you feel this way <3