About me
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- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- NSA (no strings...)
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About me
12/9/26
I have been looking for a partner to settle down with for years and failing, and if you want to know more about my perfect partner then my FetLife profile of Lion87 describes me in detail. In a nutshell, I love being in charge.
However, I realised today that, somehow, it's now been five years since I last had any kind of adult fun. I'm not sure if virginity can grow back, but there's a chance that mine might be!
So while I am looking for someone kinky to settle into a long term relationship with, I'm also wanting to break this dry spell.
My roles & archetype
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12/9/26
I have been looking for a partner to settle down with for years and failing, and if you want to know more about my perfect partner then my FetLife profile of Lion87 describes me in detail. In a nutshell, I love being in charge.
However, I realised today that, somehow, it's now Read more… been five years since I last had any kind of adult fun. I'm not sure if virginity can grow back, but there's a chance that mine might be!
So while I am looking for someone kinky to settle into a long term relationship with, I'm also wanting to break this dry spell.
Update Dec 2022:
Time for an update on this but, as ever:
Let's start with a Safe Word.
This year I bought my own place in Edinburgh and kind of have a lot of Life figured out and I am now looking for someone special to share it with.
I do like to be in charge, so looking Read more… for someone submissive, but I also love to lie nude on the couch with someone watching the TV or something from my DVD collection (collection in pictures, ask for access). Kind of looking for that balance.
(If you are looking for a more old-fashioned lifestyle of cleaning or servitude, we can talk, as I do have an entire flat to myself, but if it's not your thing I am quite capable of my own cleaning and cooking as well!)
At the heart of it is: I like a girl who does what she's told.
I like to hear you moan and beg and say things like 'yes sir' and 'thank you daddy', even if the only pleasure in a scene is mine. I like to see you wearing lingerie, buttplugs and nothing at all. I like choking, anal, oral, leading you around and rimming. I like using derogatory language.
If you think you are the girl for me, your first instruction is to get in touch. Don't send me a 'spank' as I will ignore it. Send me a message. If you don't know what to say, tell me what's attracting you to my profile.
Discuss what you are wanting to try with your partner beforehand. Agree on a safe-word that either one of you can use to bring everything to a halt. Then start off slow and see how far you want to go. For example, face slapping: start with it being very gentle and see how you BOTH feel, knowing Read more… that either one of you can halt it at any moment. The moment it becomes unenjoyable, use the safe word and stop and discuss it with your partner. Communication and is essential. Hope this was helpful. Enjoy.
Not sure I can add to what's already been said. Trust, respect and communication needs to happen before anything else. I hope you're feeling a little better knowing that not all men are like that.
Was going to reply but Bigminit and Boulderdom have covered it really nicely. Communication between partners is key.
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