About Me
Soft power. Sharp wit. Swaddled in reverence and the occasional rope.

I’m here to connect with like-minded, kink-aware people who understand the sacred, the silly, and the psychology of it all—but not for sex or scenes. I’m partnered, deeply loyal, and very much collared emotionally and spiritually, if not physically yet.

I value depth, ritual, and radical consent. I adore learning, nerding out over power dynamics, unpacking the nuance of obedience, and finding people who are as comfortable talking about emotional aftercare as they are about why some of us melt when someone says “good girl.”

I’m especially interested in forming friendships with those who can hold space, chat about kink philosophy, or maybe toss around some journal prompts over a dram of whisky and a playlist that makes you ache.



What I’m Not Looking For
⚠️ This is not a back door to flirt, push boundaries, or angle for something more.
This is a platonic, consensual, transparent space. If that excites you more than deters you, you’re probably my people.



Kink Interests (Philosophically, Not Practically)
✔️ Power exchange theory
✔️ Ethical sadism
✔️ Ritual and protocol
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✔️ Emotional D/s
✔️ Erotic intelligence
✔️ Intimacy through language



Ideal Connection
You’re curious, calm, and a bit chaotic under the surface. You get the sacred ridiculousness of this world. You don’t need a scene to understand why someone would want to kneel. You’re as likely to send a meme as you are to drop a perfectly devastating sentence about agency and surrender.

Bonus points if you like walking in woods, late-night chats about archetypes, and believe that kink can be a mirror, a medicine, or a myth.



Let’s talk if…
You can say “I understand” and mean it.
You know that a boundary isn’t a challenge—it’s an invitation to meet someone as they are.



Platonic. Present. Profoundly interested.
Say hi. But read this twice first.