I’m a little girl who’s currently in an exclusive DD/LG relationship. :3 Here to give and take advice.
Desires and Fantasies
Choking, spanking, being tied up, being hit (not to the point of serious injury, bleeding), being licked, being spat on, being pissed on.
Do you like the idea of DD/LG? Maybe that’s a good thing to try. It’s a more caring and affectionate subset of BDSM that involves being a caregiver to the submissive, and possibly punishments if the submissive misbehaves. She might like that.