Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.

Best wishes to everyone in their search.

YES TO:

• DD/lg dynamic (must have)
• Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
• Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
• Men 45 years old+
• Health-conscious men 😍

• Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
  
  NO TO:

• Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷‍♀️
• Grouchy people 😂
• Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
• Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
• People who ghost other people
• Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
• Men under 45
• MAGA people - I'm a centrist
• Heavy alcohol or 420 users
• Men who aren't health-conscious
• More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
• , kids, play, ***s

, kids, y play, ***s, MAGA
Also, my little side must be actively desired
No punishment "bad girl" type words
FUNishment is AWESOME
(please know the difference 😘)