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Happy in my relationship with Camper. He is my world.
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degregation, humiliation,scat ,hoods ,illegal stuff
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You welcome x there was a post on my profile about brat play X feel free to have a look
Thank you for sharing x It absolutely can be done.However if you are inherently a Brat sub ,you need to find someone who is happy for you to embrace your brat side . I dislike the term tame , I don't need taming ,I need someone to accept that part off me (which i have ) and support me to handle my Read more… brat ,when needed x Be you and the right person will come along x
Thank you ,I love when my post help others 😀
Thank you x No Dominant ,knows everything, communication is key in any relationship . However I agree to hold out for those ones that silently know their Dominance and don't need to boast about it ,as it is truely beautiful.
Thank you 😁
I am often told, we have an amazing dynamic (I prefer relationship ) and others want to have what we have . What I would suggest is ask yourselves are you Read more…ready for that . It is a hard and continuous emotional journey.
Often all people see ,is the shiny world of BDSM D/s ,the pleasure and delight of the dynamic,the beautiful dance between the D/s .What is often missed or ignored is ,work that goes into the continued journey and ,the mental ,physical and emotional pain that is endured at times.
imo the best dynamics ,create growth and change,which is not a pretty or easy thing to do . It should help you overcome challenges in your life ,develop your own awareness of self and take you to a better place than where you were when you began your dynamic .
These are not easy things to work on, they create your awareness of your triggers ,bring back memories of hurt ,trauma and pain. You will cry and ,feel like running away at times .
Please note I did not define roles to who would do the ,growth and change,who would go through this ,as imo it is both . What I would say though , dynamics come to an end because of growth and change ,be prepared to let go of those who don't help you grow or leave those who are happy in where they are in life . We all have our journey and some are at different stages .
So I ask you to consider again ,are you ready for that journey.
Well done you for attempting to inform him.If he doesn't want to learn then more fool him. we can't control others of they don't want to learn unfortunately
was gonna reply but Jen said it perfectly
I, am in agreement with your approach. To me you have to treat each new person with openness and trust it is unfair to judge them on previous experiences. Trust builds and develops imo. If trust is broken, I think it is very difficult to regain, however I think if someone can reflect on why, what Read more… and how this happened then I believe it can be rebuilt.
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I really want to create a mentor community for both new subs and doms to match with experienced ones to support journeys A really great topic, I was lucky enough to have a mentor when I started my journey. An experienced sub, while not same type, her advice and guidance was invaluable to the emotional journey. I am no where near an expert but I have replicated this support with others as newbies
I really want to create a mentor community for both new subs and doms to match with experienced ones to support journeys