looking for women who either just want to chat about anything and everything or just wants a stubby switch fwkb

I'm 30 years old, yes I'm now half way to 60

On the plus size side of clothing but needing to change that.
I'm also a tech nerd that wants to explore himself as I've been out of the social and dating scene for over 14 years now and thought I might as well join here.

my throne wishlist is
https://***/kick160794 for those who may want to help me out a bit with getting into kigurumi and my first cross-play

***, vomit, ***, permanent marks