Triggers can be anything, and bdsm play is going to make you feel a lot of them at first. Having a save word, is a must to prevent a trigger from becoming an all out emotional break down, use a had signal if you are gagged, and tied. You maynot want to know why somethings are triggers, just Read more… experiencing them and their effects can be enough to use a safe word and move on in play, now that the trigger has ceased. However a trigger can bring about very strong sensations, remi ding you of past violent abusive, and humilating experiences, if it is the first time a trigger is brought to the surface a painful flashback then please take tge ti.e to confront them and try to remember where they coming from, sometimes your brain will offer you no further insight, and only t
With time will your brain show you past experiences you have blocked, dont be angry if your brain isn't giving you answers,thats because, it knows you are not emotionally ready, to, experience feelings that come from past trauma.

Know their hard and soft limits, know their safe word, understand the traffic light system, having knowledge of these things will allow more spontaneity in how you deal with a brat....

In the top right corner in the recieved message text page, are three little dot press this, and you have menu of choices to deal with the correspondence ,one option is to senda pre written not interested message, and another on that blocks the correspondent completely, upto now i have had no Read more… problems, but lets wait and see...

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Learn yours and others hard and soft limits and respect them, have a sfe word, and respect others safe word. Learn the traffic light system, and respect how others use it doing this things will mean you will never do so ething that isnt consented. I big NO, IS DOING SOMETHING THAT IS NOT Read more… CONSENTED, THIS JUST VIOLENCE AND ABUSE.

Just because you consent to giving up your control, doesn't stop your equality. Get to know your had and soft limits, have a safe word, learn the traffic light system. If anything is done with out your consent, then that is not kink or fet, its abuse, and violence. You are not a sub to the world, Read more… you choose who you like to share this part of your personality with. I do think you speak universally, and all genders can benefit, this self awareness you have found. Well done xxx

I would take video and pics, and post them on a site that people could pay to view, not my thin but my clients liked them, well done for being so hoest, i have learnt something new, ps try getting a special china plate, for your SO to poop, on much better than letting it mix with toilet water, Read more… and much more presntable.

Well if you enjoy being seen as a person of multiple heritages, thats a good thing, because you will learn how many of different heritages are treated, just to experience that i would influ anyone to do it

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