*heteroflexible

If a gay biological male reads “heterosexual” they may think he may be interested in a gay relationship, which he has said he is not. He enjoys vaginal intercourse, but is open to being with a trans man that has a vagina. It seems there are still some things he is working out, but he knows that he Read more… is not interested in a penis at all. So again, just explaining in his bio, like many people who are exploring/curious have done, I’m straight but I’m open to trans men that haven’t had bottom surgery (or something like that) would be the CLEAREST way to communicate his interests.

But that opens the door to men with a penis, which he has stated he is NOT interested in. (Apologies for 2 posts my internet connection is spotty where I am, and my original post was not showing up, so I thought it glitched.)

@gluttonouspuppy understood, but I *** heteroflexible may send the message that he could be gay, which he does not want. I think good old conversation would be the way. And thankfully we all have the safety of the FET app, though I do understand how it can go IRL. If the wording of his profile Read more… comes across as offensive to some they can just steer clear of messaging him. If HE is interested he can reach out first and explain himself in more detail.

@gluttonouspuppy while I completely understand what you’re saying as it applies to the “outside world” here on FET we’re all looking for our kink, so if OP was interested in being with a trans man he could message you and explain/chat. If you felt unsafe due to the language on his profile you could Read more… just avoid starting a conversation with him, and if he reached out to you, you’d be protected by having an online conversation. Heteroflexible may send the wrong message that he may be interested in men/gay. I think all that needs to happen is conversation, which thankfully due to the app, we can all have safely.

So I’d say that then. Hetero, but open to trans men before bottom surgery?? If they have a problem with what YOU call YOURSELF I wouldnt be bothered with them in the first place.

And for that matter, there are a BUNCH of men that enjoy pegging but want NOTHING to do with a man. Pleasure is pleasure, I’m not sure why everyone needs a label.

@thornyswitch I think that has now become a gray area. He’s not attracted or interested in a dick, and having sex with a man. It doesn’t sound like he want a dick in the ass….he specifically said vagina. Obviously if that vagina is attached to a person who presents as a man, the most I would said Read more… is curious. I’m not sure I’d even say bi?!

I think you’ve gotten a lot of good advice here. I don’t think you’re unattractive at all. I agree it’s a lot to do with how you come across. I have an inbox full of “attractive men” but if they’re too pushy, or cocky it’s an automatic no. I also don’t date cigarette smokers. Personally, things Read more… that catch my eye….if you’re looking for suggestions, toned arms/physically in shape, dental hygiene, and I like tattoos, but that’s definitely not everyone’s thing. You’ll find you’re girly, I’m sure of it. 😘

If I had a partner that were uncut and wanted it cut, regardless of age, I would support his desire. After all, it is his equipment and his choice. There would never be judgement though.

I feel like this would be one of those “strange things that took me to the ER” stories.

Surprised more people don’t know that can be dangerous for her health.