I am a 55-year-old man who is a professional with a decent job and retirement savings. I have been in an FLR in the past and I miss it greatly and that is what I am looking for long term. I am going to be completely open and honest in this bio, it is not a wish list or a demand list; it is merely things that I've experienced, what turns me on, and what doesn't, so that a potential Domme can know a bit more about me and whether they would want to interact further with me

I have not been sexual with anyone in a good number of years due to my relationship ending with my prior wife who for many years was my dominant in a FLR that turned into FLM. I can achieve an erection but I do not need it to experience being fulfilled in a FLR. I do enjoy sex, but it is certainly not a requirement. I would be just as happy in a submissive support position to a stong woman, as I would in a sexual role. I am very skilled in cunnilingus and analingus. I am also a chastity aficionado and I have several custom devices and hope to continue that with a long-term dominant partner.

I believe in a high level of female control my target would be to build to a FLR Level 4 to 4+. I do not need to be micromanaged but I believe that a defined set of rules behaviors and expectations should be in place. I believe that expectations should be difficult to achieve and that training should be an ongoing prerogative within a FLR. I have never been cuckolded but I would be fine doing so. I am trained in worshiping female strap on penis and I have been in several situations where I have performed oral service on a dominant male under supervision of my former dominant wife.

I consider myself to be heterosexual but I do also enjoy pegging I find it both incredibly stimulating as well as humiliating.

For the Chastity I know from my experience that I am most submissive when I am sexually frustrated. I do not require more than 30 to 90 days increments of the ability to earn an orgasmic release whether that be ruined or not.

I am not a *** slot although I do enjoy a sensual spanking as a reward. I have been brutally caned to the level of broken skin and severe bruising with both natural and lexan canes. I have been brutally flogged and I have been paddled to deep bruising. I have been whipped with belts and tawses to raised welts. I do not e plicitly enjoy the *** but I understand that it is necessary at times during training as well as discipline. I typically do not cry from severe beatings
. I have typically sustained them while being confined and secured it to spanking benches and caning stands; typically so that I do not hurt myself or try to disengage to cover the areas being targeted. I have been beaten you to the point of vomiting through an open mouth gag without crying. I am not a brat and I will not push to the obtain a corporal punishment. Severe corporal punismnets hurt, I understand that, I do not crave it.

I am a diaper lover it is relaxing and destressing to me. My ex despised diapers but did use them as part of petticoating sissification and ***. She particularly liked to keep me in messy diapers for extended periods with no changes to try to break me of my love for them. I do not enjoy at all being in a messy diaper or in an overly wet diaper for extended periods, I still do enjoy the sensation of having a diaper on. And that could be used as either a *** punishment the way my ex did, or for a reward or not at all depending on the needs of the female dominant.

I have been crossdressed and sissified for ***, which is not something that needs to be part of any D/s relationship for mr; but while it is not enjoyable sexually for me I have found it to be both humiliating and stimulating depending upon how it is applied. This type of training again would completely up to the needs and wants of a dominant certainly not a requirement or a demand on my part.

I do carry a brand and an ownership tattoo of my former dominant wife. The tattoo can be removed if requested the brand can be tattooed over or rebranded if that would be my future Domme's wish going forward.

At a level 4 to 4+ FLR, I believe the ultimate goal should be a consensual non consent relationship. My role over time not necessarily being micromanaged but not having the ability to say no after trust has been developed that my Domme has my overall best interest at heart but retains the all rights to use me or physically cause me *** in any way that she deems to be fit for my betterment.

After trust is established 100% CNC. All limits set by my Domme.