Emotionally intelligent. Slightly feral. Kink-positive and cuddly.

Partnered and polyam-ish. I have a full-time dynamic that I love, but there’s still space in my world for new connections, friendships, and the occasional beautiful chaos.

Not looking to be dominated by men—ever. But I am open to play, mutual fun, and making interesting memories with folks who vibe well. Especially into clever women, curious switches, and couples with bi-friendly energy and good communication.

About Me:
Late 30s | Bi | Dom-leaning, but soft where it counts with a warm, sarcastic streak

Equal parts flirt and goofball. Can whisper something filthy one minute and explain a conspiracy theory with a straight face the next.

Consent nerd, neurodivergent-aware, and a retired gifted kid now thriving as a surprisingly competent chaos goblin.

I’m into connection, mutual curiosity, and swapping stories that get better the later the hour gets.

Seeking:
Friends with benefits, third-wheel situations, or just cool weirdos who don’t scare easy

Women who want to be seen and held, but also maybe pinned

Bi couples who like good energy, safe words, and someone who knows what to do with their hands and their feelings

Hard no to:
Dominant men, drama, bad aftercare, and people who think “lol” is a personality.

erome/bibear

google chat: wolftheprotector

hard limits:
***, being verbally degraded