I am new to the site, just looking around. If you feel like it, please say hello.
As a naturally dominant personality my preference is for power exchange based on trust and affection. Having been in a vanilla relationship in which with her knowledge I am free to indulge my orientation online, I am able to seek a like minded submissive to explore with.
My preference is for a women who is no younger than 40-ish. There are no absolutes in life when dealing with individuals, hence, in a given situation, a younger person would be considered.
I would prefer if she is in a similar life's situation although again, would consider someone whose situation would make for an ideal dynamic for us. I like someone kind and affectionate. Mutual respect is important.
That is all I have to say for now. Please do not shame me for my life's choices. Thank you.
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I don't approach a sub unless she shows interest. Most people are taken or don't come here to be hit on, and don't want that. I don't want to bother them.
Agree with Audrey. I love hearing from a woman, especially if she has some interest. I am very open to it.
Everyone is different of course.
Online serves my needs.
The challenge is finding the right sub who will take it seriously.
I'm here 2 days.
The lobby in the chat area is rather unfriendly and clickish.
I am considering moving on because I love to chat.
The forums are much nicer,
Hope I answered you.
I agree with what Lady Char and other with similar opinions. If you are going to bother to do an online dynamic (and please let's not fall into that debate about whether they work for you or not- that wasn't the question), then each partner must respect the relationship as they would ANY OTHER and Read more… respect the person in their role and do what they can to live the dynamic as faithfully as they can. Otherwise, you have little, or nothing.
Absolutely nothing wrong with taking the initiative. It's gutsy and appreciated and takes the pressure off the Dom.
