• Hi I'm Ben! I'm a 56 y/o Dom from Berwick, PA. I am single, own my home, business, and live alone. I worked as a paramedic for 20+ years, now I work for a company that pays me stupid ***, and I also run my own business. I have over 13 years experience in the, D/s, BDSM lifestyle. I come with a vast amount of interests, fantasies, and kinks which I would like to explore to the fullest degree. Would you care to join me on my journey? I am safe, easygoing, friendly, funny, sympathetic, empathetic, very affectionate, thoughtful, intelligent, sexual, sensual, and extremely kinky. I am adventurous and love to experiment!
• I firmly believe that the sub ultimately gives the Dom his power in any D/s relationship. That power lies in trust. Any Dom must earn this trust by establishing respect for boundaries, a partnership, a sense of safety and security, and probably most importantly, open lines of communication with his sub. Once this trust deteriorates, the relationship dies. The relationship itself goes far beyond just sex. It has it's physical level, but also goes much deeper into emotional and psychological dynamics.
• Until recently, my idea of bondage was handcuffs, shackles, straps, chains, etc. then I discovered rope and OMG my new obsession! I have been devouring everything I can find on rope bondage, suspension, and Shibari, through reading, watching vids, internet, and self practice. I would love to find classes, workshops, or perhaps a female rope bunny who would be willing to practice and play with me.
• If you are seeking an experienced Dom and my description intrigues you, feel free to DM me (don't be disappointed, I DO bite and leave marks!!! Lol). I am also gratefully accepting friends, so anyone who stops by please take the time and say hi! I can host or travel.
  *I'm into bondage, ropes, impact play, 24/7, TPE, CNC, oral, anal sex, anal play, orgasm control, bathroom use control, giving enemas, ***d orgasms, multiple orgasms, willing slave training, anal orgasm training, female ejaculation training, sperm addiction training. Holder of primo medical 420.
  *Vanilla: I love to work out, fish, camp, boat, ski both snow and water, cook, barbecue, travel, swim, the beach, the ocean, movies...especially horror, love love love rock music, concerts (and I attend many), and I'm an excellent pool player. Find me on hangouts, bdnaunczek at gee male dot cum.

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