looking for a female sub/slave first impress me with your mind then your heart then your soul and finally your body. All too often we spend so much time effort and energy chasing after storms when if we just took time to appreciate the beauty that surrounds us eventually the storm will find us, it may come quietly like a thief in the night or wild and noisy like a hurricane. However it finds you just be patient but ready for what ever it brings with it.
I am as serious as a heart attack and not at all interested "playing" at this, I have invested many years in this and know what I am what I want with little room for compromise. That being said I am not an absolute ass and realise negotiations need to made.
I am not interested in a keyboard warrior or cyber if you cant come out from behind the screen then please move along. If your looking for a 1 night stand for sex please move along. If you think that BDSM is purely all about sex please move along. play parties are fun but better when you are sharing that moment with that special one. I consider myself an old romantic gentleman and i have manners and try to follow etiquette. I know myself well and know my likes and dislikes and have little room for compromise. bi bi curious mono or poly is fine with me ladies i am secure enough in myself to not let your sexuality get in the way
Gone are the days of endless chats on other platforms now quite often there is barely enough stimuli to keep 1 room going
I do love the folk I have met this time around along with bumping into many ghosts from the past. Should anyone wish to stay in touch I am sure we will find a way over the coming 8 weeks or so
I truly wish you all the best in your search and hope you the ones i deem as friends have all the happiness life can throw at you
P.S.
I will not email message you without your permission I do not see this as submissive, just good manners so if you do wish to talk on any level, friends, relationship you will need to initiate that
My Ideal Person People are so complex and constantly evolving in both life and the lifestyle so ideally you would already have a strong idea of your identity. I would want in an ideal world someone who enjoys pain as well as pleasure, can be a little feisty while maintaining respect.
Typing endless e-mails or being in chat endlessly bores me rigid unless there is a good topic of conversation. You must be willing to at the very least talk via any form of voice chat, this avoids wasted time for both you and I
I enjoy cyber as much as you enjoy trolls and dick pics just does nothing for me. I do enjoy seeing a tasteful profile and especially one well written.
I respect everyone is different and for probably 95% of people I will not be your cup of tea so please always be honest with yourself and don't ever settle for less than you want, need and deserve
Desires and Fantasies
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