I am a Queen sized pansexual, dominant leaning switch. I practice ENM, my husband (who is asexual) does not participate in my play or relationships but is very much aware and I seek his agreement when starting anything new. The ETHICAL part of ENM is required from all parties involved and is non-negotiable. I am into cutting, whips, anal play, fire, violet wands, and so much more. I love sharp stinging ***, turning pleasure into ***, and making my playthings cry.

Desires and Fantasies
Whipping, CBT, Breast play, Breast ***, Withholding, Cutting, Wax Play, Fire Play, Sewing, Needle Play, Light *** Play, Flogging, Anal Play, Sensation Play...

hard
guns, body image *** (mine), bondage mitts, and any living thing that cannot knowingly consent