I am a Queen sized pansexual, switch. I practice ENM, my husband( who is asexual) does not participate in my play or relationships but is very much aware and I seek his agreement when starting anything new. The ETHICAL part of ENM is required from all parties involved. I am into cutting, whips, anal play, fire, violet wands, and so much more. I love sharp stinging , turning pleasure into , and making my playthings cry.
Desires and Fantasies
Whipping, CBT, Breast play, Breast , Withholding, Cutting, Wax Play, Fire Play, Sewing, Needle Play, Light Play, Flogging, Anal Play, Sensation Play...
hard
guns, body image *** (mine), bondage mitts, and any living thing that cannot knowingly consent
I find it's all in the way I look at things. Sometimes I turn pleasure into *** and I also will look at myself as a Maestro using the tools at my disposal to elicit a symphony of sounds from my submissive, including those of pleasure.