Hi there, I am a married 55 year old male living close to Romford, Essex. We have been married nearly 30 years and are both very open and supportive of each other. My wife has an interest in Kink and Fetish but for different reasons is not looking to play or be involved as she is physically not very sexual. She knows and encourages me to explore my kinks and interests which a varied but I am not interested in having sex with anybody.

Want to chat, go to events, (active at Munches and O&I) and meet those that want to play in a BDSM, Kink scene.

I have subbed for female Dommes and also Domed a couple of male subs and enjoy getting people on to my massage table for some restraint and play either way.

For the right experience I am happy to consider a tribute but would rather play generally if possible. I am an active Nudist and go to Eureka when the weather is nice.

My kinks and interests are extensive and quite out there at time.

I enjoy being controlled by females although would consider a male. I like impact play, wax, restraint, sensory deprivation, pegs, anal play and much more. I also love watersports either giving or receiving but as with any of my interests, totally understand if it is not your thing.

I don't do label. If it seems like fun and all involved are happy then I am happy. Too old to worry about what people think of me!!

With regards to limits: Always safe with what I do, no age play or anything illegal, no hard sports and find it hard to administer hard ***, especially on women.