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Age 29
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My name is mistress lilly I have years in the world of BDSM and do not see it as a job but a hobby to have another person's submission and watch there toes curl as they realize they can live out their darkest desires submittion.

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One satisfied domme
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  • 21.07.2018 17:39:49
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And the deed is done 😈😈😈
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icon-wio Mistress_lilly created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 20.07.2018 13:01:16
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The occult and BDSM.

The occult and BDSM.
Hello my name is Mistress Lilly I've been a full time Dominatrix for a few years now. I enjoy my work yes the money is great but it's also my favourite hobby, so it's perfect. I plan to post a weekly article on particular niches and my experience, hopefully making the world Read more…of BDSM more enjoyable, so please enjoy and leave a comment or like at the bottom.
So this subject get so many laughs or brushed over. So let's get into the start of this beast, I am neither stupid nor naive, and I am certainly not trying to prove any correlation between occultism and BDSM, but like anything it can be niche, fetish or kink to so many yet they are to scared to think or talk about it.
This is not pointed at anything in particular, I've met witches, wizards, pagans who like to cross their two lifestyles of the life they've chosen and BDSM. Now for a lot of people at this point your laughing or thinking it's just role play, but your wrong and I hope not so small minded, for this small community of people out their this is there life, and they strongly believe it, just like any man believes his place is at the bottom in society, or a man who feels most comfortable in panties because it's who they really are so maybe just think before you laugh straight away.
Now back in my younger days I was a young naive goth and formed a coven with my sister's. The lifestyle was perfect I had spiritual sex made deals and cast control spells (you laugh but men women and trans are into it even if it's role play for them or they do believe in it you cast a control spell and they submit to you completely a complete lack of control) a word of advice it would be better if both parties genuinely believe in it or both used it as role play this way you can avoid any disappointment if one party gets carried away. These individuals who wish to be controlled in this way are called acolyte's. It's like a full D/S relationship as they offer themselves first and agree to the level of control, they crave to please and enjoy every second of it.
Now if your still reading good and thank you for your support. Anyway I hope I've helped someone even one person is a win. Remember I will be posting weekly about different niches. Please like and comment at the bottom.Mistress lilly. X
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TAINTEDLOVE941 kitty74 well said hon "💞 🌒 she lights our nights GODDESS moon respect x kitty74 well said hon "💞 🌒 she lights our nights GODDESS moon respect x
Like · 31.07.2018 13:10:05
Kitty74
Kitty74 I identify myself as a hedgewitch following the seasons and nature. I think the fundamental believe of "do as you will but harm none" "what goes around comes around" (law of three) and understanding your body's place in the world does correspond with a lot of principles in BDSM. The goddess and god relationship of power and rebirth has a similar dynamic. Merry met and merry meet again.
P.S. I totally worship looking at the moon and standing naked in moonlight. I identify myself as a hedgewitch following the seasons and nature. I think the fundamental believe of "do as you will but harm none" "what goes around comes around" (law of three) and understanding your body's place in the world does correspond with a lot of principles in BDSM. The goddess and god relationship of power and rebirth has a similar dynamic. Merry met and merry meet again.
P.S. I totally worship looking at the moon and standing naked in moonlight.
Like · 31.07.2018 2:08:06
Lombardo43
Lombardo43 Again.Sounds like your just gonna baffle people with bullshit but just want money. Again.Sounds like your just gonna baffle people with bullshit but just want money.
Like · 22.07.2018 7:34:04
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icon-wio Mistress_lilly created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 20.07.2018 12:59:48
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Rules and tasks.
Rules and tasks.
Hello my name is Mistress Lilly I've been a full time Dominatrix for a few years now. I enjoy my work yes the money is great but it's also my favourite hobby, so it's perfect. I plan to post a weekly article on particular niches and my experience, hopefully making the world of BDSM Read more…more enjoyable, so please enjoy and leave a comment or like at the bottom.
So this is very interesting I always see dommes trying to give tasks out, or submissives asking for them before they've even taken ownership. My veiw to rules and tasks in the world of BDSM you can't give any untill you take ownership of a submissive or slave. I say take its actually not taken ownership must be offered of free will of the submissive or slave
This is a must if your D/S relationship is to work it's first block in the foundation your relationship will be built on.
Now I would advise to discuss your rules before the submissive or slave offers themselves up to you so they have an idea of what type of Domme you are. Tasks cannot be given untill ownership has been taken. Remember your rules are not just about you so remember to give your submissive or slave the chance to pick there safeword this makes them feel that they are apart of the process.
A bit of advice on safeword have a sound as well so if your kink is impact play your submissive is tied up gag in and can't utter the safe word then what? Now if at this point you say who cares you don't deserve ownership, yes you are there to enjoy and push limits, but your submissive or slaves wellness, wellbeing and saftey should be at the top of your priorities. So one of my rules is .rule # this is your safeword in the event you can't talk for any reason click your fingers 3 times.
Now onto tasks now theses like anything you need to build up and show your level of experience. So you will find an experienced Domme will start with simple tasks, and build up to test you mentally as much as physically and slowly push and test your limits. A novice Domme will ask the impossible of you and expect it to be done now. So an easy way of spotting a big red flag.
Anyway I hope I've helped someone even one person is a win. Remember I will be posting weekly about different niches. Please like and comment at the bottom.
Mistress lilly. X
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eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep the item to drop is also pretty handy if you're doing play in a club which may be noisy - definitely one I'd endorse the item to drop is also pretty handy if you're doing play in a club which may be noisy - definitely one I'd endorse
LikeMistress_lilly · 25.07.2018 23:23:34
Thesandbagger
Thesandbagger Also, if your sub is gagged and cannot use a safe word, I’ve found that if you give them something to hold, then they can just drop it if they need you to stop.
Obviously, it should preferably be something metal that makes a noise if it’s dropped.
A little tip I picked up some time ago 😊 Also, if your sub is gagged and cannot use a safe word, I’ve found that if you give them something to hold, then they can just drop it if they need you to stop.
Obviously, it should preferably be something metal that makes a noise if it’s dropped.
A little tip I picked up some time ago 😊
LikeMistress_lilly · 25.07.2018 23:21:13
TAINTEDLOVE941 Loved it,very informative.thank you. Loved it,very informative.thank you.
Likeeyemblacksheep · 22.07.2018 18:13:27
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Hmmmm is there a perfect online slave out there? I think not
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  • 19.07.2018 20:42:23
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Hmmmm so next article any requests
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  • 19.07.2018 9:58:07
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Findom/sub let's put it to bed.
Findom/sub let's put it to bed.
Hello my name is Mistress Lilly I've been a full time Dominatrix for a few years now. I enjoy my work yes the money is great but it's also my favourite hobby, so it's perfect. I plan to post a weekly article on particular niches and my experience, hopefully making Read more…the world of BDSM more enjoyable, so please enjoy and leave a comment or like at the bottom.
So financial domination, this niche is extremely rare and after 50 shades of grey it has ruined the niche to near extinction. Here's why there are plenty of rich men out there married stuck in dead or vinilla relationship, who want to pay for a 20 something man or woman to give money to, but they always want or need something in return.
So fast forward.... 2018, 50 shades has come and gone, now we are stuck with alot of imature young men and women who want money for nothing, and alot of rich or well off men left with a hole in there pocket with no trust in exploring this particular avinue of BDSM.
So to all the want to be Findoms out there, here's 3 major pointers.
1. ITS NOT ABOUT MONEY. Whether your finsub is rich or not. Whether it's £1 or £1000, just because your finsub maybe on a budget does not mean he can't participate in this niche, a finsub who has little but will give you what he can is worth more than a rich finsub who will give you his pocket change. If you can't get your head around this fact your not a true findom your a scam artist.
2. It's still a d/s relationship you need to find out everything about you finsub what makes them tick and tock, and how push them. That being said be very careful in pushing the limits in this niches as this can actually be a turn off.
3. Find out there actual fetish/kink in this niche. For example I personally have 3 finsubs, two rich one student now. My rich finsubs are usually married as said before they are stuck in a stale or vinilla relationship. Yet they want to feel like they are pleasing an unpleasant Dominatrix they want to be spoke down to. This is usually your man of power and responsibilities in work and at home, and want to feel powerless and worthless emotionally. My other finsub is a pathetic student I say that but he's a good egg. Now this finsub has a lack of confidence he is 21 quite big and girls don't really pay him much attention, yes he doesn't have that much money, I know this and this is where alot findoms go wrong, for him he wants to see a beautiful woman use his money to buy underwear, and show him knowing he can't have me so even if it's only £10 he likes the interaction with the added dynamic of a very light talking down to. So learn about your finsubs everyone is different.
Now for all you finsubs out their 3 red flags.
1. If your findom cares more about your bank balance than getting to know you first.
2. If your findom can't offer you what you want in return remember nothing in life is for free and like any d/s relationship it's give and take.
3. If your findom cant verifiy him or herself. This is a big red flag!!! now I understand everyone is busy and has a life. simple way for me I get my finsubs to take a face picture with bit of paper with my name the date and a random 6 figure number of my choice and in return I do the same that's a minimum way of verification in my eyes.
Anyway I hope I've helped someone even one person is a win. Remember I will be posting weekly about different niches. Please like and comment at the bottom.
Mistress lilly. X
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3SumQueen
3SumQueen Pics can be faked, i'd prefer to go on cam to verify someone or meet them in person. Pics can be faked, i'd prefer to go on cam to verify someone or meet them in person.
LikeMistress_lilly · 19.07.2018 23:42:13
TAINTEDLOVE941 Really enjoyed your words, explained it perfectly and with due care,as I new to this the findom part sort off puzzled me,
But I suppose if it's done expertly why not pay,I especially liked the part about just anyone offering the service for money,for nothing in return,that to me belittles the subject,so thank you
Enjoyed reading. Respect. Really enjoyed your words, explained it perfectly and with due care,as I new to this the findom part sort off puzzled me,
But I suppose if it's done expertly why not pay,I especially liked the part about just anyone offering the service for money,for nothing in return,that to me belittles the subject,so thank you
Enjoyed reading. Respect.
LikeMistress_lilly · 19.07.2018 22:53:33
subm0nKay
subm0nKay Thank you mistress lily for this very eye opening description of what findom is...
I have been on this site since beginning of the year and the amount of D types advertising for finsubs is increasing to a point that it takes up my whole new page....
it is nice to actually get a first hand account of what findom is instead of the young ladies coming in to chat demanding money
Thank you Thank you mistress lily for this very eye opening description of what findom is...
I have been on this site since beginning of the year and the amount of D types advertising for finsubs is increasing to a point that it takes up my whole new page....
it is nice to actually get a first hand account of what findom is instead of the young ladies coming in to chat demanding money
Thank you
LikeMistress_lilly · 19.07.2018 15:08:49
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Just written my first forum article check it out guys.💋💋💋
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  • 18.07.2018 19:19:42
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So I'm going to write an article on a niche tonight any requests?
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  • 17.07.2018 19:16:37
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Looking for a genuine finsub who actually understands the dynamics of a Dom sub relationship.
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  • 17.07.2018 6:41:46
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Just need one more finsub to my collection who thinks they are worthy?
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A very small shoutout to a pathetic tribute my pig sent me today.
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