Short description
BDSM ist bald 20 Jahre meine grösste Leidenschaft. Ich beschäftige mich daher seit vielen Jahren damit und tausche mich nicht nur auf dieser Seite aus sondern bin zb auch auf Fetlife anzutreffen. Ich mag es tiefgründig und doch sehr tabulos. Für oberflächliche Verbindungen oder Dates die nur zum Spass sind bin ich nicht zu haben. Daneben habe ich weitere sportliche Passionen und bin sehr naturverbunden. Hart aber herzlich. Verträumt und verspielt. Sanft und doch wild. Streng und zugleich sehr verständnisvoll im Umgang.

Mehr über mich von Fetlife:

I love adventures, travelling, music, food, jokes, sports, history, art and spend most of my time outdoor... I'm passionate about everything i love... and i love my life and to share my experiences and funny, romantic, naughty and wild moments!

What do i look for at the beginning of a conversation

What's your story? Who are you and what are you looking for? And mainly how are you? Are you willing to share your life experiences and desires. (non and sexual)? Are you willing to get to know eachother also in real life? Or are you just here because you're bored: because if that's the case=sorry i'm not =please don't waste my time.

About me

If you'd met me in real life in a crowd I'd definitely be the smiling and happy gentleman your mom would even say: he's a very nice lovely guy. I am 1.80, have blonde hair that start to become a bit grey and i take good care of my health. Don't get me wrong i definitely am very loyal, emotional, caring and also love sensitive Sex.

My dark side

But i also have a very dark, hard and kinky side: I could write forever about my stories, my desires, fantasies but as it's not just about myself i prefer to exchange and share more through PM)...

My personality
I enjoy life to the fullest and at the same time it often also hasn't been easy but i always worked on my selfreflection and also never defined myself by my social status. I have friends that are extremely economicaly succesfull and i have some that aren't even capable of beeing a part of it. So i live between enjoing the luxury in Switzerland and
at the same time also on the edge of beeing part of this society since I'm a very deep thinker and don't believe that material possesion makes a human really rich. I believe in minimalism but on the other side i have a very high drive to reach my own goals and use materialism as tool to fullfil my ideas and visions as an own business owner. I have a high self worth but also doubt myself and am my own biggest critic. I'm a perfectionist, i do have high values and search for solutions and compromises to make the people happy that i love and adore and at the same time i have in other ways a very freestyling mind and am a free spirit and a stubborn without a compromise.

Contact me if you can deal with following...

I do have a very high sexual drive and a very high drive to express myself mainly through communication/writing. Something that has been a curse and blessing for me in many ways (non and sexual).

I love naughty and kinky sex as much as beeing romantic and cuddling. I have been in different long time relationships but also have been single for many years and tried alot sexually. I often missed the romantic and mental intimacy and beeing able to share everything while I was single and had rough and awesome kinky sex. And while I fell in love and was in long time relationships my opposite only keept up in the beginning with my high sexual drive or just didn't liked alot naughty stuff alike i do. So i somehow got the impression that it's just not possible to find a women that is many sided, so open minded or driven to have it all in a relationship alike I'd imagine it to be. But who knows maybe YOU'll read this and find it interesting enough to contact me. Even if we just exchange thoughts or become good friends: i value every relationship.

Indivisualism

Individualism is extremely important to me.

After all out of curiosity did the BDSM test for fun but feel like sharing those results would not fit my personality and kinks at all. So just write me if you have any questions.

(Further I've decided to show only friends more private pictures and some vids of myself over this profile.).

Ich verabscheue Kreaturen mit ***philie und sehe es nicht als eine Krankheit an die geheilt werden kann! K9: alles was Tiere angeht ist genau so krank und wenn dich dass irgendwie erregt dann lass dich von mir als Zielscheibe auf dem Schiessstand einsetzen!
Sich gegenseitig in den Mund kacken: könnt ihr machen zB als Erniedrigung, muss ich aber nicht haben!
Ich steh nicht auf Männer und habe trotzdem keine Homophobie. Wenn du Bi oder Trans bist: du darfst mich anschreiben und ich antworte dir auch gerne weil ich Menschen nicht ausgrenze (ausser wie schon erwähnt Kinderficker/innen und Tiermisshandler/innen)!
Vorsichtig bin ich mit Waterboarding, Würgen bis zur Ohnmacht. Schäden sind ein No Go. Ich bin gesund und kontrolliere dies auch regelmässig und erwarte dies auch vom Gegenüber. Verkehr im der Kennenlernphase nur mit Kondom ausser in einer Beziehung. Und ich bin ein Beziehungsmensch (insgesamt war ich rund 18 Jahre mit kurzen Abschnitten in drei Langzeitbeziehungen).