My name is Matt and I've visited these types of forums/sites before, but never used my real name out of a sense of security or embarrassment, but for the first time, I am using my real name.

I'm Matt, I'm 40, and I am from Cleveland, OH and I am into bondage and have been for a long time. I have had only a couple of opportunities to bring it into a real relationship, but I hope for that to increase and I hope to meet like-minded people here. Looking for LTR, FWB, or NSA with someone with similar kinks/fetishes, though ultimately, I want to think of a long-term relationship as the end goal.

I'm also a very caring individual and will treat you right before, during and after and make sure you enjoy every minute.

And while my profile/BDSM tests indicate a strong dominant side, I'm actually open/willing and even curious about exploring a more submissive side as well. I've found myself more and more open to being on the more *** side of that type of setting.

Outside of what I am looking for from an intimate/sexual perspective, I am looking for someone who will open me to other new experiences as well who is also open to new experiences themselves. I am sort of a serial concert-goer, and I play guitar and most weeks I go to a local open-mic night.

Desires and Fantasies
cuffs
ropes
uniforms
spankings

no kids, ***s, ***, ***, ***