I didn't read the earlier comments, but I think it matters that you're a bottom because it's easier to fall into abusive relationships. I think it's important that you get to know the person and their personality, which it sounds as if you have. Then if you believe they're a good fit for you, Read more… before you get too intimate or involved, start a dialog about what they like in the bedroom and what you like.

Everyone already gave the advice. I just wanted to encourage and reassure you, you're doing wonderfully. Every relationship takes work and you have a great mindset, you care, and you try. Keep it up 🤟🏾

There's not much more to be said except, when you have that discussion you can tell him to say less when it comes to things you do like. For instance, blowjobs. My bottom loves giving head. I introduced her to a dental gag and she loved being forced down on my cock. No reason he needs to command Read more… you to give head if it's a favorite. Also, check out CNC play or abductor/captive role play.

Personally I didn't think about the points. I just thought it was a function to drive interaction of a wider range of individuals that you'd probably never speak to