Mood: Al1ce- Im a Disaster
Im really just looking for someone who wants to be fucked rough, beaten up, and or tossed around a little, but respecfully.
I'm a daytime manager/budding entrepreneur trying multiple businesses while working a "day" job. I spend my free time building systems that solve boring problems elegantly, lost in fantasy literature or around a table with friends playing board games that take three hours to explain.
My big joy is making thing. Ive published a non-fiction book, designed card games and coloring books, and created t-shirt designs.
I geek out over process optimization, worldbuilding (ask me about the Noyath setting I'm developing with a writer friend), and cooking.
I'm neurodivergent (test under the autism spectrum threshold, but what others call "neurospicy adjacent"), manage bipolar and anxiety with medication and healthy routines, and have celiac disease. This means I'm disciplined about sleep, diet, and self-care—and I bring that same conscientiousness to how I show up everywhere.
What I'm Looking For:
Friends, lovers, play partners, and potentially a pet. I'm ethically non-monogamous and looking for multiple connections that can be whatever works for everyone involved—from casual play to long-term relationships. I do FWB, but I don't "hook up" in the disposable sense. Every connection matters, even if it's light and fun.

My kink style leans strongly to Master/Owner, Sadist, and Primal-Hunter. My approach to dominance is about exploring your authentic self. I'm interested in the psychology of power exchange, what makes you tick, what you crave, what you're afraid to want.
I value negotiation, ongoing consent, and communication. I like to build a growing, ongoing environment. I can handle difficult conversations with calm and compassion.
Conversation Starters:

Tell me an anonymous secret of a person I will probably never meet
Guess one of the three media forms I'm published in
Ask me what it's like to have three businesses that just break even
Tell me your internet dating horror (or good luck!) story

What I Bring to Dynamics:

Life experience and perspective without paternalism
Emotional intelligence and willingness to learn you
Genuine curiosity about who you are and what you want
The stability that comes from having done my own work
Specific skills in impact play, and psychological dominance
Enthusiastic about RACK and cats

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