Why, yes. Yes I am.

Are they not? More for me then! Though, tbf, I've found asking for fisting is harder in the UK as more men seem aghast at it. I've also had doms tell me their subs who are into it have been very ashamed to ask for it.
Oh...wait....did you mean receiving or giving? I'm not into fisting men. Read more… That's......my hypocrisy and I'm owning it 😎

Liking BDSM and liking monogamy and marriage are not mutually exclusive. Why would they be?

Personally, I find the submission of men a gift in itself. A gift of time, obedience, sincerity and effort. I have my own money or I could get it elsewhere. Devotion is priceless.
That being said, I'm not here to provide a kink fantasy of fem dom for men. If subs want a latex-clad femme fatale that Read more… will tie them up in a darkened dungeon or the lady's bedroom, use toys on them, sit on their face, utter a degradation script as desired and peg them for hours.....well, that's a lot of work. That's a kink dispenser (if it isn't her own kink drives). For that particular fantasy being provided on call, as many men seem to expect, I'm not at sll surprised that some female doms expect tributes in return.