A healthy D/S should never be something that is shameful. Shame is something that can break down a D/S because that space should be built on trust, communication, and most importantly consent. The outside would should not hold that type of a hold on the D/S. Understandable we have to interact with Read more… others who may not understand the lifestyle but their is no shame in keeping your activities in private.

Hickeys that last a few days are great reminders throughout the day of play. Having them in hidden areas allows public activities be enhanced without letting the secret be know.