Based on the sexual utopia that is San Francisco, Society of Janus provides education and support to anyone who is on a BDSM journey. A not for profit, membership organisation, Society of Janus organises programs and events that connect kinksters of all persuasions. Pansexual and open to all genders and ages, the society fosters a strong sense of community and personal growth. Its cardinal rule is that all BDSM activity should be safe and consensual - and non-exploitative. Society of Janus has a long and venerable history. It was formed way back in 1974 by Cynthia Slater and Larry Olsen, and is the second oldest BDSM group in the United States. Those new to the BDSM will be welcomed with open arms at Society of Janus. It recognises that the thought of a kinky lifestyle can be daunting for those taking their first steps. Accordingly, the society has appointed two officers who work specifically with newbies as part of a 'Welcoming Program'. The 'Welcoming Program' includes monthly coffee events where you can meet other new members - and ask questions. 'Newcomer Adventures' offer special kink trips and other events. Additionally, Society of Janus runs a mentoring scheme in which you are paired with a seasoned kinkster in a non-play relationship. Full details of this scheme are available on the society's website. What better way to make you feel at ease as you explore your fantasies? A local event calendar on the website lists the many events that the society organises. Each year, it has a prominent presence at the legendary Folsom Street Fair and San Francisco Pride. You can also join regular munches and a wide range of workshops covering all aspects of BDSM. The Society of Janus website is brimming with information on BDSM. You will find helpful information on topics such as Dom/sub dynamics, impact play, bondage, as well as a list of suggested reading. Additionally, the organisation offers two free publications. 'Growing ***s' is a bi-monthly newsletter which includes inspirational stories, interviews, art and much more. The Offical monthly e-mail newsletter, Yellow, keeps you up to date with upcoming events and programs. Membership of Society of Janus costs $50 a year and brings a host of benefits. You must be at least 18 years to join.

A world leader in the global Pride movement, SF Pride has been a not-to-be-missed fixture on the LGBTQ calendar since the first Pride parade and celebration was held in 1970. Now in its 50th year, the SF Pride Committee remains a powerhouse in the ongoing fight for equality for all LGBTQ people - both in San Francisco and beyond. The Committee continues to play a crucial role in both celebrating and commemorating LGBTQ culture and heritage. SF Pride is a not for profit membership organisation, and its work supports other not for profits in the United States working in areas related to HIV and AIDS, cancer, and homelessness - along with other important causes that benefit the LGBTQ community. Education is at the heart of its mission, and the SF Pride website serves as an essential resource on both the history of the movement and the annual Pride celebrations and other events. The SF Pride magazine, 'Inside Pride' is also available on the website. The yearly SF Pride celebrations are held throughout June, with the famous march forming the focal point. Almost one million people attend the parade and festivities, coming from all over the globe. The main stage is on the steps of the historic San Francisco City Hall, and there are tens more stages representing the diverse range of groups that make up the LGBTQ community. The parade begins on Beale Street and ends at Market 8th street. Happily, the annual pride celebration is free to attend, though SF Pride does ask for a donation of $1 o $5 at the entry gates. Additionally, there are some ticketed events, for which charges apply. These include the opportunity to view the parade from the United Nations Plaza, which offers a breathtaking vantage point of the intoxicating displays of colour and diversity below. The SF Pride website outlines how you can become a member. Packages start at $15. Members receive voting rights and discounts from partner organisations. But arguably the most significant benefit is knowing that you're playing a part in one of the most powerful LGBTQ ***s for good in the world.

Mr S Leather sells an astonishingly wide range of BDSM, bondage and kink gear in the heart of San Francisco. Established back in 1979, Mr S Leather has cemented its reputation as one of the leading stores for the kink community. It prides itself on working with the most respected brands in the business, steadfastly offering high quality and exquisitely crafted goods - whatever your fetish requirements. When it comes to bondage and BDSM gear, the trusted Mr S Leather is all the man that you need. Choose from a dazzling array of restraints, gags, blindfolds, handcuffs, floggers, chastity contraptions - and much more. With so much mass-produced leather gear on the market today, making the right choice can be a challenge. Everyone's needs are different, and the staff at Mr S Leather are there to guide you through the dungeon. They're welcoming, friendly, and experts in what they do. Perhaps best of all, Mr S Leather sells its own beautifully rendered gear. All its leather, neoprene and rubber gear is made in-store. This guarantees you something truly unique - that special something that will make your play partner murmur a reassuring "wow" as he sinks to his knees, all orifices watering. And then there's the collection of sex toys. Whether you're looking for a particularly ruthless fuck machine, just the right sized anal toy, penis pumps, sounding equipment, devices for electro play, or some neat yet nasty tit toys, let Mr S Leather harness the ropes and lead the way. Attitude is, of course, everything in a kink lifestyle - whether you're in the dungeon or parading the street, seeking your next adventure. As such, Mr S Leather also sells a superb range of sport and street wear: socks, shorts, pants, t-shirts, jock straps, and even its own label, Mr S Leather Logo gear. This includes a range of ravishingly sexy singlets to show off all those hours slaving away in the gym, hankies, jocks, and hoodies All of this is available in the Mr S Leather’s San Francisco store. But you can also order online, and you get 2% back on every purchase as store credit.

A coffee shop aimed at the kink community - where else would this exist but in magnificent San Francisco? Wicked Grounds SF is America's first kink café and boutique, offering the fetish community a safe, informal, and always friendly space in which to meet and form meaningful connections. Founded in 2009, Wicked Grounds SF was always going to be more than your average coffee shop. Yes, of course, you can pick up a silky smooth flat white, but you'll be sipping it surrounded by the very best in artisan bondage and BDSM gear and a wide range of non-fiction books serving as vital educational resources. But more importantly, you'll be sitting beside the eclectic, fascinating bunch of people who make up the local queer and kink community. The Wicked Grounds SF website is a lovingly curated online resource for kinksters. Vibrant and enticing, it mirrors the café itself, which welcomes everyone. Whether you're an experienced kinkster looking to date or a newbie, the staff at Wicked Grounds SF are there to answer your questions and make you feel included. Community is indeed everything here. The café is open to anyone aged 18 and above. All they ask is that you are respectful of those who share the space. There are no demands that you dress in a particular way, though fetish gear is, naturally, more than welcome. Expect to see a human pup enjoying his dog bowl! Wicked Ground SF offer a diverse range of events. On average, there are 50 events each month covering game nights, munches, coffee socials, classes, demos, and BDSM trunk shows. It's the perfect space to see artists and meet traveling authors - and you're guaranteed to come away inspired. Additionally, Wicked Grounds SF host four play parties off-site each year. These are held at the SF Citadel, one of San Francisco's foremost dungeons, This is a strict non-judgment zone, though there are a few rules. The café serve food, so keep your nether regions covered. And, as always, consent is everything. A $300 a year annual membership gives you a host of great benefits - but you don't need to be a member to enjoy this very special place.

The Erotic Heritage Museum Las Vegas is the world's largest sex museum - and what is there not to love about that? This fascinating, provocative establishment contains a plethora of erotic exhibits documenting the global history of sexuality and desire. There is certainly nothing tame in the Erotic Heritage Museum Las Vegas. Welcome to an unabashed celebration of sexual freedom. The wide range of material will stimulate you (in all manner of ways). But it also serves as a unique educational resource on how sexuality has been represented and received throughout time. Among standout exhibitions at Erotic Heritage Museum Las Vegas is the 'world erotic collection'. This breathtaking survey of erotic art includes anime, comics, video installations, and even recordings and recitations designed to inform you. They'll probably also turn you on. How and why do we define something as 'erotic'? There are certainly plenty of questions to ponder as you wander and marvel in the museum's always engaging corridors and rooms. The Erotic Heritage Museum Las Vegas is devilishly sexy. You can stroll through an exhibition exploring the seven species that have shaped the evolution of sexuality. Alternatively, perhaps you fancy delving into the sexual realms of Germany's Third Reich. This era of sexual repression remains a stark warning to us all. Pause for thought as you gaze upon the underwear of Hitler's mistress, Eva Braun. The museum repeatedly pushes the boundaries. Unexpected and frequently quirky perspectives on the myriad forms of sexuality abound. Where else could you find an exhibition looking at sexuality in space? Yes, even intrepid astronauts have their needs - even as scientists have issued guidelines on why sexual shenanigans up in the stars should be avoided. As well as its permanent exhibitions, the Erotic Heritage Museum Las Vegas has a series of rotating displays to entice you. There's an erotic artist of the month, for example. Additionally, you'll find an ever-changing list of events including lectures and shows. Prices range from $10 - $30. And entry is for 18+ only. Who knows who you may meet as you gaze upon those giant phalluses.

Green Door Las Vegas has been the premier kink and fetish venue for consenting adults in Las Vegas since 1998. Billed as a "unique social and health spa", Green Door Las Vegas offers over 18,000 square feet in which to mingle and get unashamedly kinky with welcoming, like minded men and women. You have 364 days a year to wander through the spa, private rooms, showers, semi-private rooms, steam room, and even a VIP room. Or you could choose to head straight for that inviting orgy bed. So, what can you expect to find behind that infamous green facade? In short, Green Door Las Vegas is a fetish paradise. There's an orgy room, voyeur rooms, a dungeon (of course!), and even a 'Sexagon' (jacuzzi). The dress code is 'dress to impress' - they ask you to keep it 'stylish and sexy' - and there's also a no-wear room for those who get off on revealing all. Unlike other such establishments, you don't have to be a member at Green Door Las Vegas, although memberships are also available for purchase on the website. No reservations or invitations are required, so you can turn up at any time to unleash your desires. Wrist bands give you re-entry, should you require a well-deserved rest, and also give you access to the classes and events the club is holding. The passes and memberships are divided into those for 'couples', 'females', and 'males', and the rules stipulate that single customers need to be invited into couples areas. Nightly passes start at $20, and there are further options for weekly, monthly, and yearly access. Towels, robes, condoms, 'enhancement pills', and private parties are not included in the admission price. Green Door Las Vegas prides boasts a friendly, safe atmosphere in which everyone is welcome - so long as they are respectful of others, and follow the golden rules of consent. A truly private club, you'll find people from everywhere across the world. Alcohol is not sold on the venue, and you're not allowed to bring your own. But who needs drink, when there's all this kink to revel in.