I’ve spent most of my life around rhythm—on concert stages, behind the scenes, and in the quiet pulse between two people who trust each other.
As a softsadistic Dom, I see control as a dance made of patience, communication, and curiosity. The strength of a hand means nothing without the calm behind it.
I build my own toys — iron, leather, and wood — but connection always comes before equipment. I’m drawn to partners who want to explore slowly, learn safely, and laugh in between.
You’ll often find me walking my golden retriever before the city wakes or driving between Brighton and Birmingham, chasing the next show.
Coffee first, always. The rest — if the chemistry insists.

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