N1kas (50 years) - N1kas

N1kas

Man · 50 years · London, 1 km

About me

I'm into

Woman

I'm looking for

Kinky DatesLTR (relationship)Events & PlacesNSA (no strings...)BDSM Lovers

Description

Stage technician by trade, boundary-pusher by choice. Most of my time is split between concert arenas, workshop sawdust, and early morning walks with my golden retriever before London wakes up.
As a Dom, I lean towards patience and soft sadism. Control isn't about theatre or brute *** — it’s about reading the room, knowing when to push, and having a calm head. I craft some of my own gear (iron, leather, wood), but the headspace always matters more than the tools.
Looking for genuine connection, slow exploration, and people who don't take themselves too seriously.
Currently driving between shows. Coffee first, always.

Limits

***, ***, vomit, permanent bruises/scars

My Places

Kink-friendly Venues

Pleasures

Created by the wonderful Maggie and Steve, the beautiful house this event is hosted in is an inviting venue that makes your desire to enjoy fantasies all the more palpable. The club is open every weekend and has varying themes on a regular basis. There are 14 play areas, 2 hot tubs, a sauna, and an indoor pool. We have everything you need to enjoy your next play date. Come see why we are one of Kent's favorite play places.

Maidstone, Kent, UK

Kink-friendly Venues

*** Garden

The grandaddy of all fetish sex clubs, *** Garden is a veritable institution in the BDSM scene. Established in 1990, it is now Europe’s largest fetish club, offering regular parties in London at various venues featuring musical acts, performance art, fashion shows, and of course delightfully kinky play rooms. The *** Garden pushes the fetish boundaries and dares you to explore your deepest darkest fantasies. Dress to impress and prepare to be whipped into a frenzy of wild ecstasy at one of their debauched sex parties. Photo @*** Garden

London, Greater London, UK

Dungeons & Studios

Hire Dungeon Rental

This bespoke BDSM dungeon is located in Baker Street, the birthplace of Sherlock Holmes, but it’s likely you’ll be doing investigations of a different nature here… The Hire Dungeon Rental is available for professional mistresses and their slaves as well as couples over 30 and provides the perfect adult playground to act out your kinkiest fantasies. The *** Chamber has all the equipment necessary to inflict sweet sweet *** while the Mistress Boudoir is a sensual space to discipline disobedient subs. The only mystery to be solved here is how much pleasure can you stand? Photo @Hire Dungeon Rental

London, Greater London, UK

Dungeons & Studios

West End Dungeon

Hidden behind a discreet entrance, a world of pleasure and *** (the good kind!) awaits you. The West End Dungeon boasts two fully equipped dungeons and a medical room as well as an array of toys to excite and entice. Mistress Gemma or Mistress Vanessa are on hand to show you the ropes and you can hire the space by the hour or for overnight stays, depending how long you want to play. The perfect place to get your kink on! Photo @West End Dungeon

London, Greater London, UK

Dungeons & Studios

The Serpent Rooms Dungeon

The Serpent Rooms in north London is a clean, well-equipped, welcoming place to get down and dirty with you partner (or partners!). Multiple rooms offer different experiences and pleasures and exclusive use of the entire building ensures total privacy and discretion. If whips and chains excite you, you won’t be disappointed at the Serpent Rooms. Photo @The Serpent Rooms

London, Greater London, UK

Dungeons & Studios

London Dungeon Hire

I’m you’re looking for a kinky city break, look no further than the London Dungeon Hire! Situated in the hip and vibrant East End, this multi-roomed sensual play space provides a kinky atmosphere to explore all your fetishes. Dungeon hire includes access to an extensive collection of equipment and toys and there is a keen attention to detail, with fetish artwork and erotic sculpture throughout as well as music and lighting that you can control. This BDSM dungeon has been around for more than 25 years so they are experts in offering the very best experience for consenting adults who want to live out their wildest fantasies. Photo @London Dungeon Hire

London, Greater London, UK

My groups

Fetish

Taboo/Cnc

Kinky/taboo talk and confessions. No judgment disrespect or bashing A safe place to express and know your not the only one 🤐😍🤞🏾💦💦

BDSM

BDSM UK

A group for all those into BDSM living in the UK

Local

London Community

This is the local group for London people. Meet other fetishists in the Greater London & surrounding area -- plan meetups, or just exchange tips & stories with like-minded folks nearby. Respectful, inclusive, and real — just like your community should be.

London, Greater London, UK

BDSM

Impact Play: Spanking, Flogging & Caning

For lovers of the thud, the sting, and everything in between. Whether you enjoy giving or receiving, this group is your spot to explore spanking, flogging, caning, paddles, and more — with skill, consent, and a good dose of aftercare.

BDSM

Bondage & Restraints

From silky scarves to full rope suspension — if tying up or being tied down excites you, this is your place. Share techniques, tools, fantasies, and safety tips with fellow bondage enthusiasts.