A personal note...
It's been six years since I've been in a second relationship and I'd like to begin another. If you're a widow, divorced, or married in a non-intimate relationship, send me a message and we can start to get to know each other here and maybe lead to coffee/lunch and such.
I am an occasional third with another couple and it is wonderful for each of us. I might fit in if you are a couple in a sharing relationship
If you're in some other situation and interested in chatting or meeting, that's fine.
Don’t worry if hypnotism doesn’t interest you. It’s a skill and my profession, not who I am.
That said, hypnotism to help you improve your life can rock your world!
Comedy hypnosis for entertainment, vanilla or naughty, is lots of fun.
Erotic or kink hypnosis is a fantastic experience!
All I ask is that we all/both get a benefit from the time and talent involved.
As far as natural domination is concerned, think about it this way... I'm Casanova visiting the house of his good friend, de Sade. ![]()
Married. Learned I'm polyamorous. I've never had to "look," for friendships; they just happen over time. Very easy going. I'm a pedantic ass when typing answers to questions. I'm easy going and fun in person. Tolerant with everyone except the intolerant. Professionally ethical. I won't degrade people, just not my thing. I build them up whether Top or bottom. Since this is my profession and the times I've enjoyed kink/erotic hypnotism, you'll be treated fairly. But you will compensate me for my services. All that said, let's have some fun!
My interest in the profession of hypnotism was to help people in their everyday lives. Online research led me to the old Yahoo rooms for erotic hypnotism. It was an... interesting... education. My professional education as a Consulting Hypnotist is varied. There are so many beneficial applications of hypnotism for positive life experience and change.
Just as any other kink, fetish hypnotism doesn't have to be dangerous. Get an understanding of what is and isn't. Be honest with yourself about what you do or don't want. Understand BS in hypnosis is just like BS in your waking state. You can probably tell the difference, although understand you maybe somewhat cognitively challenged, you're only as "" as you allow yourself to be.
I was in Nebraska Community Ties since 2007. That group disbanded in about 2013, I think. Although not recently, I've enjoyed the company of Midwest Alternatives. I've presented for both groups as well as AHS in KC, MO, and at The Elms outside of Coon Rapids, IA.
So, I became a hypnotist to help people improve their lives. I appreciate the various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle and am kink friendly and vetted through active membership local to me and have made some wonderful friends...
... and I do Comedy Stage Hypnotism. Bring me to do entertainment for your school, university, business, company, fair, festival, or fetish event. The entertainment will always be appropriate to the audience. ![]()
I've had two relationships as part of my ENM marriage. Those relationships lasted 2 1/2 and 14 years. My family knows I attend lifestyle events. I'm happy to do hypnosis scenes while I'm at such events. My services as a hypnotist, vanilla or kink, are available for hire. This is great for you because I'm not going to do anything with you or your SO that would jeopardize my profession or marriage. So, if you want to experience or watch erotic/fetish hypnosis knowing that the hypnotist's life keeps you safe, this is a great opportunity for you.
Beiter Sexuality Preference Indicator
BSPI Type: DTEA
Outgoing, friendly, and accepting. Exuberant lovers of sexual activity. Enjoy experimenting with their sexual partners to discover what is most pleasurable. Makes sex fun. Flexible and spontaneous, adapt readily to their sexual partner’s needs and desires. Enjoys introducing and trying new sexual activities.
Dominant Preference
You indicated that you are most comfortable with being the dominant partner, which typically means that you are the one to more often initiate the sexual activity.
Hard limits? In the hypnosis realm that would be degrading or making someone less capable in their life. I build people up; I don't tear them down. I'd much rather dominate a strong person than a weak person. Much less work that way.
But I would help build someone up if I had the motivation to do so.
Desires and Fantasies
I'd love to have a professional relationship with an executive who's in charge and very capable at her business. Underneath, is her submissive self marveling at her success, but so wanting a break to simply serve and please in her own right.
And here I am. Professional hypnotist that can bring so many resources to her company, but something inside of her recognizes her natural submissive reactions to my natural dominance.
As my professional service to her and her company grows, her submissiveness comes forward more and more as we work together.
One day, I notice the r on her neck, her eyes drop a little as we talk, her voice softens... and my dominance comes forward in response.
From that we enter a new, deeper, relationship outside her work.
Ask anything you wish...
NEHypnotist
It's all about personalities and the relationship. If you want to be dominant about it and keep control, give her instructions that limit what she does.
If she can see a digital clock set to Stop Watch, she must raise up after 30 seconds. Variations, she cannot re-sit until she is told to and she Read more… gets another 30 seconds of attention. She has to go down on you for one minute. No timer, but when you slap her bottom she has to immediately raise off. Of course, you can act as if she's about to be swatted, but hold off.
Many playful ways to enjoy and be dominant.
There are many reasons to be online only. If that's where you're at; that's where you're at. While online will work and is wonderful when you're new, irl is better. Been there. Done that.
While I'll gladly be friends with anyone, the responsibilities and pleasures of a relationship are limited to Read more… another... rare... real life relationship.
A professional hypnotist in your area should also be able to help you improve your ability to center yourself.