Anyone that wishes to cyber play with me will need to contact my Owner to receive permission and a list of the rules of my collar. I may have friends and to mentor about the lifestyle. Any inappropriate mail will be sent to my owner and I will not reply.
I've been on both sides of the coin . I think the main thing is if having a conversation as a group to try to ask an opinion of someone who is in the corner that may not know anyone or shy. So they feel included and the ice is broken.