Who am I?

I Have always had an interest in Kink but within the last 12-18 months have started to enjoy my first experiences. I have been extremely fortunate to have been introduced to the scene by an amazing Domme who has taught me so much and allowed me to learn and develop whilst having some amazing experiences. I have continued to explore as a bottom and recently as a Top and wish to continue to learn, grow and develop. To that end I am looking for any and all experiences and am open to all offers to Top or bottom.

Vanilla me is generally happy in life, I'd consider myself kind, caring, confident, honest and fun. I am single with no commitments and recently have found myself reading about and keen to explore polyamory. My vanilla interests include Sport (I am a huge Minnesota Vikings NFL and Wales Football fan), Video Games (recent favourites being FFVII remake and the Witcher 3), Music (Killers, Manic Street Preachers and 90s-2010s Dance) also love to socialise with friends whenever able to do so.

What I am looking for

I Have many interests and kinks I would like to explore and others I know that I enjoy, I have enjoyed Impact, electrics, wax play and rope so far all of which are things I would love to return to. I believe safety and consent is paramount in play. I am still exploring but think I could possibly fit under the description Sadomasochist.

I also am keen to experience futher service submission, both in terms of serving and being served. As a sub/bottom i do like to be a good and obedient but as a Top/Dom I can see how brats could be fun.

I do like to have fun where appropriate but safety, negotiation and consent of all parties is essential. I also like the idea of being creative with kink as regards to tasks, punishments etc. Aftercare is a vital part of any experience and absolutely will take place with anyone I play with as it is critical for both Top and bottom.

I like to attend almost all of the South Wales munches and rarely miss one since attending my First at Bridgend in January 2023. I have met some amazing people on the scene and relish the social side. In addition I am also looking to attend appropriate events, so far have been to Swamp and the BBB multiple times, Pink2Purple and The Facility once, next up is Twisted and hopefully some events at Xtasia and Dare2.

Happy to chat with anyone or accept a friend request if we have chatted at a munch or event. Keen to make friends with anyone in the South Wales/South West area.

What I am really looking for however is connection, really what I deeply desire is to care for somebody else and to be cared for. This seems to be easier for me to imagine within the confines of a power exchange/dynamic regardless of which side of the / I am on. As a Dom this would manifest itself in being nuturing and supportive to a prospective sub whilst looking for control and indulging my sadistic side during play. As a sub I would wish to serve the needs and desires of my Dominant and support and obey thier commands in the mutually agreed areas we discuss.

SKILLS/KNOWLEDGE/KINK EDUCATION

I Have learned the following in my 6 months on the scene:

I really enjoy impact play both giving and recieving

Verbal and non verbal commands and positions

How to give a good foot massage

A love for recieving electrics and how to use a violet wand

Very basic Rope which I absolutely will improve upon but more importantly that I enjoy tieing and being tied.

I have also attended various workshops and read numerous books, I am committed to learning more about myself, kink and improving my skills as I progress on my kink journey.

HARD LIMITS

My current limits as a bottom are Forced Bi, Scat, Findom, extreme breath play(collar and leash etc is enjoyable however), Needle Play, Hard Ball Kicking (other CBT ok), piercing and anything other than very short term chastity (during play and/or a couple of days before).

As a top I am still finding out and learning my own limits but anyone who bottoms to me will have thier limits adhered to without question or exception.



BDSM TEST RESULTS 05/03/2023

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
93% Switch
93% Sadist
92% Rigger
90% Master/Mistress
89% Dominant
89% Masochist
87% Rope bunny
82% Owner
82% Degradee
80% Submissive
76% Degrader
72% Brat tamer
69% Slave
63% Experimentalist
57% Pet
56% Voyeur
52% Non-monogamist
47% Exhibitionist
47% Primal (Hunter)
45% Primal (Prey)
44% Brat
18% Vanilla
11% Daddy/Mommy
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer

I'd say the test is quite accurate.

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Limits are covered above