Thank you SirArchA for this very informative post
I have just recently joined this site to hopefully understand and learn more about BDSM
Since meeting my partner 7 months ago on a 'normal' (whatever that is ) dating site, I have found that I enjoy the odd kinky session as both a submissive and Read more… dominate, sometimes we switch though to be honest I think I prefer to be the submissive. I'm coming to the conclusion though that I must communicate more with him about how I'm feeling and what I'm wanting and not wanting each time we get together as I sometimes just go along with things cause I want him to enjoy himself and to please him when sometimes I actually just want a loving vanilla session
So yes communication and permission/consent is the key