Just a Sadist looking for his masochist.
I get called various things, but I'm often introduced as Mr Whips and Sticks. Experienced Sadist, Dom, Top, rigger. (See end of profile for details).
What I'm looking for
A connection, confidence, meeting of minds, communication, honesty, trust built over time. The more communication prior the more in depth play can be.
Happy to play with people starting their journey and experienced alike. I occasionally mentor people and happy to explain impact and electrics to help others.
Some of the things I like;
Building a connection that makes a scene more intense, Impact, electrics, rope, building bondage furniture, but most of all I like to know the other person is or will enjoy what we've done together. I rarely tie someone just for the sake of tying. I prefer rope to be a part of a scene to enable something else to happen.
Limits and negotiation are key for me. I'd rather play within a set of limits than plan a scene out down to the last detail. I often start with several ideas and end up only using a couple. My toy collection has been built up over the years and consists of several prototypes, things need to be tested first.... and part of the fun of the build up to a scene is deciding what to use.
Heavy thuddy floggers and single tail whips
Western rope bondage that has a purpose
Electricity that doesn’t just hurt
Canes and sticks making parallel lines
Sharp knives and vampire gloves
Clamps and the weights attached to them
Rope suspension that’s only part of a scene
Inescapable metal bondage furniture
Scratching, biting and leaving marks
Latex, fishnet or just a collar
Cold metal and soft leather cuffs
Predicament bondage you can’t quite get comfortable in
Giving orgasms, especially when they don’t or can't stop
Hands around throats or over mouths
Being called Sir and still having fun
Cuddles and aftercare from the headspace play brings.
If you are interested in getting to know me, please simply be direct, and ask. I always enjoy being approached. I prefer to meet at events before playing in private, either at a munch or prefferably at an event.
Experience
Thank you for getting this far and wanting to know more about me. I understand that many on here will claim to be experienced, so I thought I should give some examples.
I've been involved in running BDSM events for over 15 years. some of which include,
Play Club - BDSM event
Club X - BDSM event
Dystopia - BDSM event
Manchester kinky drinkies - munch
Manchester under 35 munch - it was a while ago
I've also been a dungeon monitor at Club Lash, LAMchester, Spankd
I occasionally give demo's on electrics, impact play and how to use metal bondage. While I enjoy rope it's not something I will teach beyond showing a couple of basic ties. There are better instructors on the scene around Manchester.
I also make impact toys and attend markets around the country.
Feel free to ask any questions. If you go to events there is likely you might know someone who can vouch for me.
Besides the usual and anything illegal my limits very much depend on the person I'm playing with.
Soft limits
Watersports
Heavy breath play