Ok..I'll say what I find myself saying over and over. I'm really 54. I just left my husband of 35 years. I was completely loyal, and I'm totally shy and not shy at the same time when it comes to sex. I am a sub. I'm an alpha sub and find that others have a hard time keeping up with me intellectually. I am partially sapio-sexual. My degrees are in Anthropology and Psychology, and I made it to Calculus III before I ran out of student loans. I am currently not in the market for another long-term relationship...I don't want to just bounce. I do want to get to know people and build relationships based on utter honesty and complete radical transparency