Work In Progress

Hi and welcome to my corner of my kink journey. I have taken a hiatus of a year or three, sh!t happens and it alus seems to happen to me, but hay ho :jumping:

Labels, does anyone do labels these days? Submissive means one thing to one person and another to another person. For me, it would take a lot to give my full submission to any prospective Dom.

Let's talk about the weather, gardening, films, etc. Kink talk can wait until down the line. Do YOU ask a woman what her kinks are face to face within minutes of meeting? There is no difference being online.

Here is a quote that speaks volumes. Person first kink second. Wonder how many D-types seem to get this back to front? Get to know the person first then kink will follow through. Would you put the horse before the cart?

Here is a bit about me, in no particular order

• My vinyl collection is 40ish years old
• My down time is photography, more so B&W. I don't really do normal photos, much prefer the overlooked objects - No I don't do nude photography of any sorts, no point in asking!
• Urban Exploration piques my interest
• Empire of the Sun, Ghost, Sleep Token and Rammstein are on my list to see live in concert
• Off to see Simply Red in concert next year
• Manners and a sense of humour is a must for me
• London is my choice for a short break
• Words on a screen mean nothing to me, same with online camming......taking it offline is far, far better!
• I don't do heights
• I don't post nudes nor do I send nudes, once they are out there, then there is no turning back
• Irish accents is a thing for me
• Stop asking for a face photo of me, I do value my job (well sorta, not really, I'll sit on the fence) AND a wage that pays MY bills. Yes I'm a real person, get to know me first then I'll see.

No thank you to the following

• Persistent askers, more so for nudes. Don't forget you are on a site where you see nudes without having to ask for them
• Pushy D-types
• Threesomes/third wheel in an established relationship
• D-types that don't know what 'accountability' means
• Rude/ignorant people, I do have a profile. Do have a read, it is there for a reason

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