Hi, I'm 35 and currently without a girlfriend. I am primarily looking for someone to share life with. I am not unattractive and I am very supportive. I also relate to a submissive role. Please do not think that this makes me a door mat or someone who can be easily manipulated. I have a brain (post-doc no less!) and am looking for an attractive intellectual equal who likes to take the lead. I have a kinky side and would enjoy being used in that way (if you get my meaning ) as long as the relationship were a strong one and we had developed a good friendship beforehand. Kinky stuff is kind of mandatory (but please don't perceive this to mean that I am a pervert, I am a fully three dimensional character with other interests besides bdsm). I have a broad range of everyday interests from current affairs to music and love to discuss interesting things with new people, so please do contact me.