Here is a thought, how about only those close enough to actually meet send me messages…..if you are over 500km away, its unlikely we will ever meet, or strike up any sort of relationship, so there is no need to message me. Now that being said…….
Everyone has a fetish, some have more than one...I know I have many lol. I am 59, single and therefore missing my other half. I am interested in something long term, monogamous (I do not ever share my lady) and while I use the term lady, I am looking for one who can wear the veneer of a vanilla lady when she has to, but at a word, a touch, a glance, she knows that I want that veneer gone and her real personality out. I am quite easy going, love to banter with my girl, I will always welcome her ideas, her thoughts and her opinions, but I also want her soul, I want her body and I want her mind. I can be a gentle lover when I want to pamper her, I can be the disciplinarian when I think she needs it and I can be the sadistic dominant when it’s time for that. THAT is the lady I am looking for, are you here?

no ***, no blades, no whips everything else is open for negotiation