I am really looking for a genuine connection in Nottingham, possibly leading to a LTR and within that I would like a man who would want to spank me. I am fairly alternative, enjoy gigs, goth music, punk, theatre, walking, outdoor swimming, dance, travel and Nottingham Forest. I am interested in a man who knows how to treat a woman. I like to have fun. I'm not a Domestic Goddess. If you're looking for a cook, a carer or a cleaner, that's not me! I want lots of sex and some of it kinky. I'm open to more casual dating too, but I have absolutely no interest in hopping from man to man and I don't want an open relationship. I am strictly one man at a time and I'm not here for one-off hook ups. I really like the outdoors and enjoy sex in the countryside. Once I'm in touch with someone, I enjoy receiving their messages and calls, and value good regular communication. I'm busy, so I don't have loads of time but also don't want an endless stream of texts with no meet ups. I need physical contact. I don't string people along, I would be honest with someone rather than ghost them, and I expect the same respect. I'm up for sex talk and video chat. Must be left wing: no flag flying, right wing Reform types or Tories please. Basically I'd love to meet a kind, generous hearted, articulate and literate bloke with a good sense of humour who is up for a few gigs, nights out, country walks, chatting and some kinky stuff. It seems I want an exceptional man! Not posted a photo of my face, simply as I don't want work clients or colleagues to spot me here. I also like big hands and holding hands. I would be curious about your kinks and am open to experimenting. I like to be tied up once the trust is there. No married men or anyone in a long term relationship please. Oh, and if you're separated it would be quite nice if the divorce has already gone through and you're totally over your ex - I'm not your therapist and I'm not here to help you get over someone!

I'm looking to be spanked and tied up by a man and explore my limits within that. Not interested in anything illegal or any other weird shit. I'm getting a lot of messages and if they're not from local men interested in what I'm looking for, I can't reply. I'm not being rude, I just don't have the time. I'm not interested in swinging. I'm starting to think I might be too normal for this site (after receiving a message from a man asking me to chop his cock off!), but we'll see. I'm definitely not planning on injuring anyone or being injured myself! Just spanking and being tied up. If you disrespect me I will block you. No misogyny. No dick pics. No 24/7 D/S or TPE. Breath play - no way.