Every dynamic is unique. Some people get off on ***, ***, ***, free use etc. A M/s dynamic is much different than a D/s dynamic.
But this gift crap is topping from the bottom if you ask me. Subs need Dons as well. It's the ying and yang. It's a mutually beneficial relationship for both parties Read more… involved.

Depends on your role ultimately. I won't compromise on certain things but will relax on others. I understand a sub may have had bad experiences with anal so I can back off and try to push those boundaries at a later time. But if a sub says she won't suck dick than I'm out. What is ultimately Read more… important to you and your satisfaction level?

It never hurts me like that. Everyone is different though.

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To minimize bruising, the most effective method is to apply ice immediately after an *** to constrict *** vessels and reduce *** leakage into the surrounding tissue; this can be done by wrapping an ice pack in a towel and applying it to the affected area for 10-20 minutes at a time, several times a Read more… day.
Important points to remember:
Act quickly: Apply ice as soon as possible after an *** for the best results.
Don't apply ice directly to skin: Always wrap ice packs in a cloth to prevent skin damage.
Consult a doctor if: You experience excessive bruising without a known cause, or if you have concerns about bruising related to medication side effects.