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Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 44
Status Single
Height 175cm
Weight 79kg
Body shape Curvy
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Long
Origin UK
Zodiac sign Aquarius

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?

Limits

No or .

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Pam_82
icon-wio Pam_82 wrote something in the forum
  • 12.05.2026 15:39:29
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single
Could a relationship not be 100/ 0%?

:1778587045,2280156,The concept of 'Vanilla Tea' is spot on.
Outside of this community, I am a highly successful, independent woman with a demanding career and a strong personality. I don’t 'need' anyone which is exactly why I have the capacity to be generous. Having a kind, supportive side Read more… is a conscious choice, not a weakness. Providing a home, funding a lifestyle and building someone’s confidence for well over a year isn't 'vanilla'—it’s being a powerhouse. It’s a shame when a sub’s only way to feel 'edgy' is to try and diminish the woman who quite literally paved the way for them.
I am 100% behind this concept. We need to start supporting each other by sharing these experiences to protect our time and energy. I’d love to help get a local group started for us to vet and discuss these encounters. Let’s stop letting them move from one powerhouse to the next without consequence. Count me in!

Pam_82
icon-wio Pam_82 has logged into Fetish.com after being away for some time. Say hi!
  • 24.04.2026 5:09:18
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single
Pam_82
icon-wio Pam_82 finished the BDSM Test
  • 04.01.2025 19:13:46
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single

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Dominant

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Pam_82
icon-wio Pam_82 wrote something about themself
  • 04.01.2025 18:46:29
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single
I am strong-willed and independent, with a clear sense of self-worth so do not have time for jokers who are only on here for chat. Are you ready for me to take charge and make you totally submit to me?
Pam_82
icon-wio Pam_82 shared the limits
  • 04.01.2025 18:46:29
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single
No or .
Pam_82
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  • 02.01.2025 22:07:40
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single
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  • 02.01.2025 21:48:43
  • Female (44)
  • Birmingham
  • Single

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