So... Well... I am an older, experienced more dominant kind of switchy Kinkster... A kind of Dom / Daddy / Uncle / Stag blend, mixed together with a modicum of Master, the devilment of a Dirty Old Devil and a soupçon of Sadist / Sadomasochist.... There is also, from time to time, a little bit of switch in me occasionally, in the right (very specific) circumstances and only with the right person... We are all complex blends, after all...

Perhaps a good way to describe me would be an intellectually and creatively stimulated gentleman pervert...!!! (but they don't seem to have that option, in the drop down list, so I’ll settle for the all-rounded "Kinkster" tag at a push)

I am a relationship anarchist... I like to have a strong/core emotional and intellectual connection with friends and (like a lot of people) I look for like-minded folk to be the yin to my yang… good, compatible folk with whom to explore both life and kink in various degrees of words, thoughts, contemplations and actions...

... perhaps with a longer term view to finding more of a true "partner in crime", somebody to be the other half of a kinky dynamic duo that I see (in my mind's eye) being a part of… But maybe that's in the "let's see what happens" area, right now...

I am always happy to make new, like-minded friends, and do so without any agenda or preconceived ideas...I have an avuncular nature and I like to help and support people through friendships. It has a lot to do with wanting to share the benefits of my experience with people and, thereby, help them...

Kink-wise, then, basically, if you are (or might like to be) an exhibitionistic show-off (with or without suitable encouragement), who likes role play and likes to please (or has a service sub type of thing going on), is good at taking direction (and maybe prefers a dominant gentleman in that role), and who also wouldn't mind a darn good spanking now and again, we are going to get on like a house on fire. Being somewhat brat-ish is also attractive to me as part of a blend.

Friend-wise, then if you are kind, considerate, compassionate and thoughtful, then we are alike and will get on brilliantly.

Desires and Fantasies - Feel free to ask.

I am generally not into giving or receiving *** although there may be specific circumstances where that might form part of play but that needs to be clearly agreed and discussed beforehand.