About me:

What I'm currently about

These days I enjoy showing off the different kink leather goods that I have made. I will be offering some of the things I make for sale.

Also, I decided that I am not going to do new designed custom work for people outside of what I've already discussed and promised. If we have discussed a customized version of a design that I already sell, then that’s different but will cost more.

Please do not ask me to design things for you. I am not interested. I want to pursue my own creative desires and interests. If I get to know you and if I OFFER to make you something, I have an interest to work together so unless that happens don't ask.

I do like to run Kinky Game nights at my place once a month. Check them out on the FetLife events page. They usually go up about two months in advance.

I am starting to work on play parties.

Find my kinky profile @janus09.

Also, we started a book club! It is vetted so please take the time to respond when we reach out to try and get to know you!

On friend requests:
I generally never accept friend requests from people I've never met. If we've interacted a lot online, I'll consider it.

On following and being followed:
I'll be honest, I follow people and unfollow them often. If we don't interact then I don't see any point in me continuing to follow you. On flip side, I don't like it when people follow me and don't interact. Why are you following me then? If I remove you, it's not cause I don't like you. It's that I expect you won't even notice you've been removed. Feel free to re-follow.

Tested as of August 2025. I generally get tested based on activity. So if there is no recent test. it means I just haven't been active.

My Story

I started my journey into kink in late 2019. I had moved to Tokyo from Okinawa in order to start college. It was during this time that I found Happening Bars (Japan's take on swingers clubs). I enjoyed going but the high cost of entry, the difficulty of the language barrier, and COVID shutting down the world led to me eventually looking to branch out.

Furthermore, I had begun to feel like swing wasn't really my passion. It was there and it existed as an option, but it wasn't where I wanted to finish my kink journey. So I started Googling around. Through my efforts I found Dept H, Pink Theaters, and took a closer look at the FetLife account I made after a foreign couple at a happening bar had taught me about.

I enjoyed exploring each of these things. I went to my first Dept H, visited several pink theaters in Japan, and joined my first munch. I went to more Dept H's. I went to Mistress Maya's events. And I continued to go to every munch I could.

Eventually I started to dabble in my own events. I held pink theater visits, I arranged group trips to mixed onsens, and I started hosting parties in AirBnBs around Japan. It was during this time that I met and connected with a partner and we established a D/S dynamic that lasted until she departed back to the US.

I stopped doing events because I finally listened to both the people around me and the nagging voice in my head convinced me to address my former party co-hosts behavior. I should have listened to people sooner.

After that I went quiet in the space for a bit. I attended a Dept H or two but no other events. I eventually found my current passion of making kink leather goods and have been slowly attending more and more events. I also recently started hosting my own events again.

Thanks for reading my story. I feel like it's a good way to catch people up.