I'm a submissive masochist rediscovering myself. I'd like to explore feelings and sensations through msg exchanges with Dominant Women. This can evolve to phone conversations, and possibly real world play once the pandemic is more under control. I can be VERY shy in the presence of smart, powerful Dommes, but usually I'm expressive, fluid, and good with words.

My roots in D/s and BDSM are in the real world, but even in person submission, for me, begins in the mind, and language is the key.

Desires and Fantasies
I'd like to explore a variety of highly polarizing D/s conversations (and rl interactions maybe, but I'm fine with online and NSA) with Dommes. By Dommes I mean dominant women. I'm also interested in very intense verbal and/or in person games with FTMs.

I'm not sure if I want to be owned, but I do know that if a Domme immediately declares ownership of me, it feels unreal and anticlimactic. From experience I know that I can be owned, but it's a soul deep, mind/heart all-absorbed state of being for me. So maybe I'm better off just playing. ;)

I have a few hard limits, including any kind of *** play. I may be willing to explore TPE in limited, immersive sessions. Age play is all the rage right now, and I've nothing against it, but I can only explore it to a limited degree - as a means of polarizing power dynamics, perhaps - and I'm definitely not into any kind of ADP or the like.