About me
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Description
I am a Princess.. with a capital P! 
Yes I know this is a LONG profile ? I use my profile as a filter. Suck it up and read, or don't bother me.
I am not looking for sexting or long distance. My chat is short in order to see if we have compatible service hours. No point in connecting in long expressive chat, then we meet and realize there is no chemistry. It's not about looks but energy etc. I am hunting for local submissives only... real life face to face REGULAR service. NO MEET AND BEAT. I have a VERY busy life and you need to be responsible for keeping communication going. If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. Business and in and out of the country, things get hectic. ?
I am seeking service oriented subs who are not looking for sex.
In my home, warehouse, etc. Wanting to please me and make me smile, who enjoys CFnm. Your body type is not important. Your vulnerability is.
When in Mexico I seek a sub who speaks English and can help me learn the culture, language, translating, shopping locations etc.
In Canada, available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.
In Mexico I have alot more available hours.
I do have some interest in chastity. Knowing I am in control of your orgasms is exciting.
Not into Mommy or AB play.
If you are looking for hot kinky sexual play, negative psychological treatment or hard sadistic play, you will not be suitable.
I have been active as a switch for over 25 years.. and still find new things. It's amazing.
I enjoy rituals and rules but not high protocol. I am a toy addict and truly love to test my toys on flesh that begs for my touch.
If you like simple touch, soft to medium intensity, floggers and my special baby (check my photos)... you may suit my needs. My favourite is my violet wand ? I am aware electrical can be scary and I will walk you through it slowly. I have given seminars on the safe use of violet wands in the past... and I will respect your safe word. Google violet wand BEFORE you message me.
First and foremost, I expect to be entertained and get attention.
First meeting... you will buy me lunch/dinner, we have a conversation, and then, you go will home. If we both want to get to know each other more, the next 1 or 2 dinner dates are discussing particular interests and limits. Then we will plan a play session.
If that works out for both of us, future private play and service would be in my home or warehouse.
I am in committed 24 year kinky marriage and not seeking a relationship. Just casual play partner friends. You will be serving me, not my husband.
I own multiple businesses and am doing well. I require your body, submissive nature and your brains not your money ? BUT you must have disposable income so I won't feel bad when you buy me dinner, purchase personal toys for yourself, etc. Oh and chocolate covered strawberries or candy apples occasionally. ?
I seek a sub that benefits my life. Whatever talents you have, I can find a way to apply them in my personal and business life. Massage, computer, handyman, organizing, physical work, pedicures, detailed work, IT, online sales, mechanic, information gathering, house help, etc .. my personal assistant to use and abuse. Your talents define the service I request. You are to make my life easier...what talents or training do you have? ?
I am a warm and caring person yet I have a fun soft sadistic side. I am not a hard cold Domme who thinks you are worthless. In fact, I seek a strong confident syb who loves to serve. I will smile happily as I tease and torture you ? As long as you try hard to please me and finish your tasks with care, you will find me patient and kind. If you misbehave on purpose I will not "punish" you, I will send you home. I seek a sub who craves to please, not a brat who needs an excuse to be beat.
I DO NOT like to repeat myself. Read my profile as I get annoyed if you ask me something stated in it.
If we do not connect as D/s private play partners, I can always use a foot massage, chat, servant or play partner at an event. ? I do not chat online... my life is too busy.
I love newbies who are nervous and just want to experience a few things. If you see me at an event, feel free to drop by and chat.
Compatibility, good service and hygiene matter to me more than body type. Sorry but you need to be 30+ years to apply to be my boy. If under 30, come serve me at events and I might play with you.
Message me with more than just a "Hello" or I will ignore you.
Do NOT ask me for kik, whatsapp, messenger etc. If I meet and like you, then you will get easier ways to contact me.
Read my PickyPrincess Posts.
Do you dare to dip a toe in? ?
And congrats... you made it to the end of my book lol
My roles & archetype
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Unique crackling sounds, odd smell, hair standing on end...
Yes I know this is a LONG profile ? I use my profile as a filter. Suck it up and read, or don't bother me.
I am not looking for sexting or long distance. My chat is short in order to see if we have compatible service hours. No point in connecting in long Read more… expressive chat, then we meet and realize there is no chemistry. It's not about looks but energy etc. I am hunting for local submissives only... real life face to face REGULAR service. NO MEET AND BEAT. I have a VERY busy life and you need to be responsible for keeping communication going. If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. Business and in and out of the country, things get hectic. ?
I am seeking service oriented subs who are not looking for sex.
In my home, warehouse, etc. Wanting to please me and make me smile, who enjoys CFnm. Your body type is not important. Your vulnerability is.
When in Mexico I seek a sub who speaks English and can help me learn the culture, language, translating, shopping locations etc.
In Canada, available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.
In Mexico I have alot more available hours.
I do have some interest in chastity. Knowing I am in control of your orgasms is exciting.
Not into Mommy or AB play.
If you are looking for hot kinky sexual play, negative psychological treatment or hard sadistic play, you will not be suitable.
I have been active as a switch for over 25 years.. and still find new things. It's amazing.
I enjoy rituals and rules but not high protocol. I am a toy addict and truly love to test my toys on flesh that begs for my touch.
If you like simple touch, soft to medium intensity, floggers and my special baby (check my photos)... you may suit my needs. My favourite is my violet wand ? I am aware electrical can be scary and I will walk you through it slowly. I have given seminars on the safe use of violet wands in the past... and I will respect your safe word. Google violet wand BEFORE you message me.
First and foremost, I expect to be entertained and get attention.
First meeting... you will buy me lunch/dinner, we have a conversation, and then, you go will home. If we both want to get to know each other more, the next 1 or 2 dinner dates are discussing particular interests and limits. Then we will plan a play session.
If that works out for both of us, future private play and service would be in my home or warehouse.
I am in committed 24 year kinky marriage and not seeking a relationship. Just casual play partner friends. You will be serving me, not my husband.
I own multiple businesses and am doing well. I require your body, submissive nature and your brains not your money ? BUT you must have disposable income so I won't feel bad when you buy me dinner, purchase personal toys for yourself, etc. Oh and chocolate covered strawberries or candy apples occasionally. ?
I seek a sub that benefits my life. Whatever talents you have, I can find a way to apply them in my personal and business life. Massage, computer, handyman, organizing, physical work, pedicures, detailed work, IT, online sales, mechanic, information gathering, house help, etc .. my personal assistant to use and abuse. Your talents define the service I request. You are to make my life easier...what talents or training do you have? ?
I am a warm and caring person yet I have a fun soft sadistic side. I am not a hard cold Domme who thinks you are worthless. In fact, I seek a strong confident syb who loves to serve. I will smile happily as I tease and torture you ? As long as you try hard to please me and finish your tasks with care, you will find me patient and kind. If you misbehave on purpose I will not "punish" you, I will send you home. I seek a sub who craves to please, not a brat who needs an excuse to be beat.
I DO NOT like to repeat myself. Read my profile as I get annoyed if you ask me something stated in it.
If we do not connect as D/s private play partners, I can always use a foot massage, chat, servant or play partner at an event. ? I do not chat online... my life is too busy.
I love newbies who are nervous and just want to experience a few things. If you see me at an event, feel free to drop by and chat.
Compatibility, good service and hygiene matter to me more than body type. Sorry but you need to be 30+ years to apply to be my boy. If under 30, come serve me at events and I might play with you.
Message me with more than just a "Hello" or I will ignore you.
Do NOT ask me for kik, whatsapp, messenger etc. If I meet and like you, then you will get easier ways to contact me.
Read my PickyPrincess Posts.
Do you dare to dip a toe in? ?
And congrats... you made it to the end of my book lol
Seeking to meet any sex or bdsm role for friendship and sharing information... and if we connect, maybe some non sexual kinky play partners.
A male Dom just wanting to meet for a coffee? Female sub looking for a friend and a chat? Read more… Male, female, etc, dom, sub, etc... I am open to gettimg to know you .. and to learn about Mérida 🥰
Maybe even find someone willing to give me spanish lessons lol
What if the social culture was very conservative... similar to the Bible belt? 🤔
And people were nervous to go to something public?
Typically munches are held at public venues.
I can't and won't say that none of those things will happen; I myself had a panic attack and had to leave a rope meet this summer - it was just a bad day for me.
But as I said before, there are things you can do:
- Find a munch that incorporates an interest of yours. There are all kind of them - board game munches, cake munches, film munches, and so on.
- Once you've found one you think appeals, contact the munch host. Explain to them you're new, and have anxiety.
- As has already been said, most munches have a newbies time, to get acquainted with your surroundings, the host, and possibly other new people.
- Set yourself a time limit. If you feel really anxious, but still want to go, just go for the first 30 min, for example. If you love it and want to stay, great!
- Join the munch hosts group, if there is kne, and introduce yourself there. Perhaps explain that you don't want to go alone; you may find that you get to chatting with someone and can meet them a few minutes before so that you can go in together.
I hope something there helps. Good luck!
I have a coffee before my dance/social. Some people just come to that to dip their toes into the water.
I'm a big supporter of BDSM socials (munches) though many of them aren't that welcoming to new people. When people come to mine I introduce them to someone, see how that goes, revisit and if the conversation has died down, introduce them to someone else.
Having it in a private home is riskier to the host and the attendees. But there's no such thing as perfect safety.
Before the internet, I had socials at restaurants, and eventually I would invite people to my home. I didn't think of it as the same as a munch but sometimes they were socials as well.
At some point I would invite people to come to play because my home has equipment and hard points. Then it became a play party.
A lot of munch organisers will host a pre munch meet for new people - a chance to meet fellow newbies and the organiser(s) ahead of a larger group arriving. Good hosts will then introduce you to munch attendees that you will likely have things in common with. Perhaps look for munches with an intro offered?