Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub.

A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you.

One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is)

I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it!

I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too.

I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet.

I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude!

I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along

Hardlimits

Needles
***s
Vomit

Nettles
Marks - due to my personal situation I can’t have marks left on me this is very important
Drinking Water sports -(but I’m not against ***ing if you want to watch)
Any *** devices - I don’t like serious ***
Cum in mouth - not happening I’m afraid
Cum in arse - condoms needed
Condoms needed for sex
Ass to mouth - a definite no no ever!
Controlled sex with hubby

Middle ground:
Cum on face/body - you must be prepared to clean me up without a trace.

Soft limits
Knife play

Likes
Spanking (loving this even more)
Breath play - chocking
DD/LG
Ageplay
Anal - prefer With lube
Nipple clamps - lightly tight
Hair pulling
Voyeurism watching and being watched
Vegetables
Sex toys
Sex machines

Curious about
Pet play
Fisting
Mental Sadism - I like teasing the sadist in you..

I’ll add more when I think of them