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Personal details

Gender Woman Man
Age 50 51
Height 162cm 184cm
Weight 52kg 11kg
Body shape Average build Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Other
Hair length Long Long
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Bi-curious Straight
Ethnicity Asian
Origin China UK
Body hair None
Breast size B
Zodiac sign Sagittarius Cancer
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages Chinese
English
English

About us

We are looking for

We’re looking for

  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)
  • NSA (no strings...)
  • BDSM Lovers

Description

420 friendly.. meet for a sesh? (tobacco free however I do vape and enjoy making edibles and extracts ;) )

Interested in finding a female submissive friend-with-benefits (fwb) specifically for him/husband.

He would generally prefer a longer term fwb arrangement with compatible girl, rather than ONS / one offs though that is flexible depending on situation.

Masked photo is just for discretion, not a sadist as it may appear.. although happy to dial things up according to your tastes of course.

Mistress is not playing at this time so in case it matters, it is to him you will be submitting.

He is not great with small talk at first, hasn’t needed to ‘chat up’ anybody for years (out of practice) and probably not going to make you swoon with his looks, but has good heart, is kinky as you like and knows how to treat a ‘good girl’ (or a bad one ? ) xxx

p.s. Sex machine owner… As in literally, not just using the phrase as a euphemism for his trouser snake. xxx

Limits

Breeding/pregnancy risk as a prerequisite condition of play..

open to discussion

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420 friendly.. meet for a sesh? (tobacco free however I do vape and enjoy making edibles and extracts ;) )

Interested in finding a female submissive friend-with-benefits (fwb) specifically for him/husband.

He would generally prefer a longer term fwb arrangement with compatible girl, rather than Read more… ONS / one offs though that is flexible depending on situation.

Masked photo is just for discretion, not a sadist as it may appear.. although happy to dial things up according to your tastes of course.

Mistress is not playing at this time so in case it matters, it is to him you will be submitting.

He is not great with small talk at first, hasn’t needed to ‘chat up’ anybody for years (out of practice) and probably not going to make you swoon with his looks, but has good heart, is kinky as you like and knows how to treat a ‘good girl’ (or a bad one ? ) xxx

p.s. Sex machine owner… As in literally, not just using the phrase as a euphemism for his trouser snake. xxx
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Restrained in hotel - a first meet (& 1st shared story)

I never said it was anonymous or without connection, I merely referred to it as a ‘first’ meet - which for me meant first of many or start of an ongoing D/s relationship. Others may well be into the idea of it being anonymous or a one off encounter though and that’s fine too. Everybody is unique. Read more…
Thanks for sharing though and I do hope you manage to find a way to open up about your desires, I’m sure you’ll have a better chance of having meaningful, magical connections if you do.

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Restrained in hotel - a first meet (& 1st shared story)

😅 of all the words I thought might get censored I really wasn’t expecting it to be ‘s p e e d’ 🤣

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Restrained in hotel - a first meet (& 1st shared story)
As you were instructed, you are waiting on your knees, cuffed with your hands behind your back, with a spreader bar between your ankles and a blindfold on, wearing a new purple lace number that you know I bought for the occasion while you wait for me to finish in the hotel room shower.
You can Read more…feel the shiny silver butt plug with a purple crystal decoration that was inserted inside you after you were restrained.
You hear the water stop and your anticipation rises, knowing that you will not have to wait much longer. A few moments later, you hear the door and your heart starts to race a little.
You sense me walking around you and know that I am taking in the sight of your beautiful body in the lace. I take my time admiring your lace-covered frame. You feel my hands touch you, gently exploring your skin, touching your erect nipples, and giving them a firm squeeze.
I move behind you and release one cuff temporarily in order to cuff you with your arms in front of you now, then gently but firmly push you onto all fours. My hands caress your butt, and I give a light spank. I pull aside the lace to take a look at the plug in your hole. I pull it out and push it back in a couple of times, enjoying the sight of your tight arsehole expanding and contracting as the bulbous plug is moving in and out.
I pull you back onto your knees, and still blindfolded, you sense me standing close to you. You feel my manhood touch your cheek, already semi-hard in anticipation. I slap your cheeks with it a little before putting it into your mouth. I let you get familiar with it and pleasure me with your mouth and tongue a little before I grab your hair and start pulling you back and forth on my hard erection as I start to face-fuck you. Gently at first but building up in rhythm quite quickly. You gag a little as you feel my cock getting harder and bigger as I am forcing it deeper into your throat.
You start to wonder how much more you can take when I eventually ease off and move you to where you know the sex machine has been set up in preparation. A little nervous anticipation builds in you as this is something you have never tried before.
After I get you in position, you hear the machine turn on momentarily at a low s***d as I make sure you are in the right place. It stops again and I guide your pussy onto the dildo attached to the machine. Your pussy is already dripping with anticipation, but you also feel the lube on the dildo as it slides into you. I turn the machine on again and you let out a little moan of surprise.
Your moans get more frequent as I turn up the s***d on the machine and watch you getting pleasured by it.
I let you get used to it and enjoy watching you for a while before putting my erect member back in your mouth again.
You have the machine pounding you and my hard manhood in your mouth. The pleasure gets intense.
You cum, not being able to prevent yourself, your juice dripping down your legs. I scold you, saying I did not give you permission for that yet. I pull you up and bend you over the high bed. I slowly pull out the plug and start spanking you, harder than the gentle one you got earlier and getting harder with each slap. After 6 or 10 or so (you aren’t counting as you are consumed with pleasure), I roll you over to get a taste of your pussy juices. After licking your clit and teasing your pussy with my tongue, I roll you back over and with your face pressed against the duvet, I ease my hard cock into your arse. I fuck your tight arsehole for as long as I can, but my own excitement has been building while watching you and I soon cum deep inside of you.
It’s not all over yet though. You noticed other interesting toys in his suitcase earlier and you are wondering which ones might get used next…
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PurpleKink_DM
PurpleKink_DM ➦PurpleKink_DM quote MasterAidan:❝I have a fantasy oddly really similar or the same as this - but to me it’s more than just an anonymous encounter, it’s meaningful magical, and involves a connection first - well it’s hard to describe or open up about.❞
I never said it was anonymous or without Read more… connection, I merely referred to it as a ‘first’ meet - which for me meant first of many or start of an ongoing D/s relationship. Others may well be into the idea of it being anonymous or a one off encounter though and that’s fine too. Everybody is unique.
Thanks for sharing though and I do hope you manage to find a way to open up about your desires, I’m sure you’ll have a better chance of having meaningful, magical connections if you do.
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PurpleKink_DM
PurpleKink_DM 😅 of all the words I thought might get censored I really wasn’t expecting it to be ‘s p e e d’ 🤣 😅 of all the words I thought might get censored I really wasn’t expecting it to be ‘s p e e d’ 🤣
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TRUE COLORS TREASURE HUNT

Thank you for the extra clues @CallMeMistressV& @Ozz630 and for your message @PixieDust ☺️
Found it now!

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TRUE COLORS TREASURE HUNT

Hi all, I am really struggling with day 16, I have all the others so far I believe. I am sure the clues for day 16 are clever, just maybe a little too clever for me 😅 it’s not in the places the clues make me think of anyway.
My DM box should be open to everyone except men.. it was open to everyone Read more… once upon a time but I’m sure I don’t really need to spell it out here why that got changed 🙄
Anyway @PixieDustor anybody, please help!

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