whites-creek62274 Looking to be dominated balls deep Looking to be dominated balls deep

clear_spring Chastity Chastity

clear_spring Female Led Relationships Female Led Relationships

clear_spring Femdom in Berlin Femdom in Berlin

papi_G This one ,
*Brown is Beautiful* This one ,
*Brown is Beautiful*

delight_in_life Clever! 😊 Clever! 😊

watervliet231623 All the new places I’m aware of now and the people I met on here All the new places I’m aware of now and the people I met on here

BigSoftGuy Made few good friends, Had 1 meet that went well. Learn new things and communicate, Don't be stuck in old ways and it works out. Made few good friends, Had 1 meet that went well. Learn new things and communicate, Don't be stuck in old ways and it works out.

TiberiusJackAsh Online dating is a train wreck, anymore. However as a hopeless romantic and/or optimist, it's good to keep avenues and options open. Happy Thanksgiving all! Online dating is a train wreck, anymore. However as a hopeless romantic and/or optimist, it's good to keep avenues and options open. Happy Thanksgiving all!

DarkZero44 The kinky scavenger hunt is really fun and I'm always checking the forum for hints The kinky scavenger hunt is really fun and I'm always checking the forum for hints

young45yold A lot of catfish on here but when u match
it is a Home run! A lot of catfish on here but when u match
it is a Home run!

EuropeanMartin Find someone that just understands you but just as important you understand them. Find someone that just understands you but just as important you understand them.

bigkirk7175 Learning Learning

TinknShr3ddd3r Red is NEVER the goal!! Spicy yellow is !!! Red is NEVER the goal!! Spicy yellow is !!!

Quixote_69 1. Bdsm isn't inherently sexual.
2. Negotiate aftercare before play begins.
3. Always keep learning.
3b. Tops & bottoms both need education
4. Don't play with someone if they don't explain the risks.
5. Everyone has limits and it's ok.
6. Everyone is unique, don't expect what will work on one partner will work on another. 1. Bdsm isn't inherently sexual.
2. Negotiate aftercare before play begins.
3. Always keep learning.
3b. Tops & bottoms both need education
4. Don't play with someone if they don't explain the risks.
5. Everyone has limits and it's ok.
6. Everyone is unique, don't expect what will work on one partner will work on another.

SluttyMorrigan A lot of this isn't strictly Kinky, but is great for Friendships, Vanilla, Non-Monogamy AND Monogamy, etc. A lot of this isn't strictly Kinky, but is great for Friendships, Vanilla, Non-Monogamy AND Monogamy, etc.

SluttyMorrigan One thing I would do with ANY Relationship is the Mirror Test: If someone was treating your best friend like they're treating you, would it make you Happy or Upset? Don't trust Words, trust Actions, because people Lie. Feelings are okay, it's what you DO with those Feelings that are Important.
Be Read more… Explicit with what you want, don't want, and interested in trying. People don't always get hints! It's okay to try something and not enjoy it! It's okay to ask Questions. It's okay to take things slow.
Negotiate things ahead of time, including the relationship itself. Try new things, might be surprised at what you find you like. It's okay to want to do lighter versions of things, before doing something extreme like Handcuffs before you do full bondage.

Umilta The first big piece of advice is one nobody wants to hear, that is be patient, at all steps of the process. Whether that be vetting someone, learning a new skill, dating someone, negotiating a scene, preparing for consideration, and especially ownership. You cannot rush the process and still Read more… expect it to work out all right. If it feels more like a burden, and less like a natural and gradual change, you’re rushing it and not being patient.
This is more so a minimum rule of thumb but I’ve never seen a timeframe less than the following work out.
Vetting: 3 weeks minimum, 1-4 months recommended
Consideration: after vetting this is your “test phase dynamic / practice dynamic” give this whole process at least 3 months, I personally recommend a 6-12 months.
Ownership: realistically this can happen the moment consideration is done but you will likely still need to set aside a few months at the beginning for additional training and getting used to it.
When learning how to practice a new kink, patience is also needed. Before you even start practicing you need to learn all the safety risks and requirements, this needs to be learned to the point you can fully explain it to a scene partner. Only after safety is out of the way, should you practice either on yourself or an inanimate object before you ever practice on another person.
Before you ever enter into a dynamic as a Dom, you need to at minimum have discipline over yourself, understand the cost of submission, understand what it takes to both create, and sustain, the environment of submission. This cannot be done in a couple weeks, if you do not apply this you are at risk of causing undue *** and suffering on any sub you take on.
If you are polyamorous, patience also applies. You should not be seeking additional dynamic partners until you complete at least consideration with the previous partner. If you’re in consideration, wait till it’s over to even contemplate adding another person, otherwise you are setting yourself up for failure.
I know it sucks, I know it isn’t what you want to hear, but it’s best practices going back 60+ years.
Qualifications: I am a formally trained Dominant with a decade in the community. I haven’t seen everything, but I’ve seen a lot and these recommendations come from that experience.

SluttyMorrigan Feminine. At least a little above average looks. Doubly so if Top or Top Leaning Switch. Also Kinky & Geeky! <3 Feminine. At least a little above average looks. Doubly so if Top or Top Leaning Switch. Also Kinky & Geeky! <3

lakemichigan51200 The more you look like a lumberjack The more you look like a lumberjack

IDGRA77 Muscular females - if there is such a person on here.. Muscular females - if there is such a person on here..

brazuca ➦brazuca quote intellectualruffian:❝… There was something in his eyes this time as the final notch on the cuff clicked so the tightness of the cold steel gripped my soft fragile wrist like an old crude vice. Not hateful, but devoid of patience. Had I bratted too much this time finally…? Had I truly Read more… pushed my always so well composed Sir to breaking point this time? I mean every man has his breaking point if you push him enough. I know I’d been trying him of late, testing his limits and pushing his own boundaries, and quite frankly pushing my luck. But something was different this time, and I felt something new… not that I was in danger, as I know I’m always safe with my protector. But this time I felt I was in store for a correcting of the likes I’d never felt before, and by god did I hope that was true. I grinned further to entice his inner demon out more. Because if this was truly the awakening of the demon he rarely lets out its cage, then I wanted its full wrath and for him to take no prisoners. My last thoughts were… bring it on. Bring hell with you and let’s never return from its depths.❞
And the winner is... @intellectualruffian, with the most upvoted answer 💜

Samael_Belial The cuffs clicked shut and a grin spread across my face. "Ohhh." He intoned, in a rich bassy baritone. "It's time for your punishment. You'll love this." His fingers traced lazy swirls up and down her legs before forcing them apart. She could feel the heat of his breath, the stubble on face as he planted kisses and bites on the inside of her thighs; steadily moving upward. A pause, the sound of a long inhale and he started to go to work with his mouth. The cuffs clicked shut and a grin spread across my face. "Ohhh." He intoned, in a rich bassy baritone. "It's time for your punishment. You'll love this." His fingers traced lazy swirls up and down her legs before forcing them apart. She could feel the heat of his breath, the stubble on face as he planted kisses and bites on the inside of her thighs; steadily moving upward. A pause, the sound of a long inhale and he started to go to work with his mouth.

richland11693 The cuffs clicked shut and a grin spread across my face. I knew with an absolute certainty that tonight he needed my release… that’s always why he binds me this way. To remind me whose voice I need to listen to… buttt… the challenge was just acceptable enough to my bratty ways that I decided to make him have to work for it… and the fire of my own power blazed The cuffs clicked shut and a grin spread across my face. I knew with an absolute certainty that tonight he needed my release… that’s always why he binds me this way. To remind me whose voice I need to listen to… buttt… the challenge was just acceptable enough to my bratty ways that I decided to make him have to work for it… and the fire of my own power blazed

neenah1973 get know some people on here and see were leads too get know some people on here and see were leads too

mrvetnotthepet Didn’t know they offered premium Didn’t know they offered premium

whites-creek62274 Trying the find that someone to put me in my place and cum a lot Trying the find that someone to put me in my place and cum a lot

brokenhearted83 And smaller me played And smaller me played

brokenhearted83 When she did she turn it a sub and and pet and all I did was adore her and srachher all over When she did she turn it a sub and and pet and all I did was adore her and srachher all over

ardmore80353 Yeh I have been told that I have a very pretty mouth as well. Isn't that funny. U know what is next.. lol Yeh I have been told that I have a very pretty mouth as well. Isn't that funny. U know what is next.. lol